Pregnant??????????????

Answer: Since I been there first hand, if my husband got another woman pregnant, I would know that he wasn't happy in our relationship and I would want to know asap. I would let him know that we would have a break for him to decide what he wanted to do so he could have space to either work things out and do the right thing. Or realize what he did the way he did it was wrong and tell him when hes happy to come back home if thats what he choose. But chances are I wouldnt be happy at this point either bc people sense when the one in theyre life is cheating, we just choose to or not to find out at the time we feel it happening.

people cheat bc theyre chicken and affraid of truth in theyre own lives. either bc of fear that the person theyre with will hurt them or selfishness that they want the best of both worlds. AND chances are, if A man is a good man , he was just scared in a tough little body and too chicken to hurt his wife bc he thought it was what she wanted.

Men should know, woman are stronger. Honesty makes woman stronger, trust and loyalty.

Woman are more likely to forgive if were told the truth before we find out our selves.

Then if you give us space if we really love you we will realize u werent happy and we will take you back and try to atleast make it work. BUT if we werent happy either, we will probably see the negative aspect for sake of being a victum. We will not forgive and we will not take you back bc then we will be trying on something that we never really wanted in the first place.

UN-IMPORTANT info ABOUT MY first hand situation:

when I gave birth to my daughter, I looked in her eyes and I knew she wasn't my fiance's but I didnt have the heart to tell him bc we were trying to fix our relationship and it was getting better. I had the guilt of a murderer ... so I did everything in my power to make our relationship work, bc I knew it was me that made it not work when I broke up wit hhim and slept with another guy. (who turned out to have 3 other gf's and I was the one he was cheating with little did i know) so he didnt want ne thing to do with us, and he was in denial that it could be possible.

Well ... my now ex husband a good guy when he wanted, but his possesive and controling personality always hindered me from being really truly happy. It took me alot of lieing to myself and him to go through with every day.

When she turned 7 months was a rocky time for me... bc I was seeing her features more and i think in his heart he was too. He made jokes alot like pressing the issue. What if she wasnt his..and I would get mad and defensive... and he would stop.

The reason we thought so much during my pregnancy she was my (ex husbands) was bc he purposly tried to get me pregnant for sake of me not leaving him.... well it worked. I thought we could make it work, but it didnt. This was the worst thing for me and him.

I finally left him after a huge physicall fight when he hit me in front of her for the first time. She was in her crib and he degraded me every way possible and that moment I told my self WHY am I making this ok...and my guilt for marying him was the really only reason I could find. I that night took a stand. He made me sleep on the floor because I told him i was leaving. He told his grandfather to make sure I didnt leave while he went to work... his grandfather was wathcing me like a hawk. I called 911 and they helped me and the baby out.

My uncle finally told him to leave us alone because the baby wasnt his and that not that it was right of me but to just move on with himself.

I signed for an order of protection / divorce for us after days and days of threats to come and find us and kill us , and other days of him wanting to make things work and he would be a good dad for her... his skitso attitude made me feel even more unsafe then ever...then the guy who was the babys father did DNA for me to help me move out of the state with proof that the baby wasnt my ex's. AND he told me to keep it a secret from anyone in NY because his current GF was pregnant, and another one was saying the baby was his alot of drama that I had no idea existed. I was in the drama myself but in denial of it , I thought this only happened on TV! I did it to myself.

chances are, if A man is a good man , he was just scared in a tough little body.

My daughters biological father isnt in our lives. He hasnt even seen her since she was 7 months maybe 3 times total. He was chicken **** made me and another girl feel like if we told anyone that we had his kids, that his gf would leave him and she was pregnant at the time so we didnt want to hurt her either . so we stayed quiet...

If my husband got another woman pregnant it would be the answer to all my problems. I would be able to leave him without a second thought and I would get our two kids.

If my husband got another woman pregnant then he better hope the hoe is worth losing me over. I don't live with drama in my life so I'll be gone...no questions asked.

If my husband got another women pregnant I would leave... I would not want to be part of that dog and pony show.

If my hubby got another woman pregnant--- I would tell him to "leave and get out and go take care of your kid."

Then I would file for divorce and seek alimony!

End the marriage and never have anything to do with him again. Good luck to the woman he gets prego, because he'd probably do the same to her too.

honestly i'd leave the bastard, if you don't care about me or our marriage, and are so disrespectful enough to get another woman pregnant then get out of my house, don't ask why, don't apologize......and go raise your child

Divorce her and take her for everything that she is worth and let the other man have try support her and their new kid.

I would leave him....but after I got done hurting him....he at least wouldn't have too worry about getting anyone else preggers!!

I would leave in a heartbeat, and encourage him to pursue a life with her, raising their new little baby.

I would take all our kids with me.

I'd drop him faster than a hot potato.