Uneasy about the future of a relationship/partnership?

He does not have the same goals for the future that you do. Someone would eventually resent the other for making them give up on . . whatever.

Wish him well and move on. You are way to young to be so serious and impatient for a family. You are 21 not 31. Just relax.

Regardless of what many people will tell ya, that little piece of paper called a marriage license embodies a commitment. And without commitment, you don't really have a marriage. The fact that he's telling you that he thinks ' marriage is a waste of money ' is nothing more than a cover up for his fear of commitment to you or for his downright lack of desire to commit to you. An when you couple that with the fact that he will one day be traveling a lot, you are setting yourself up for many lonely nights ( and days ). And should you decide to end this relationship, don't worry about not wanting anyone else. You're young yet and it's highly likely that someone who's a better match for you will come along at some point in your life whom you WILL want...

I'm going to tell you from experience, never, ever waste time with a person that TELLS you they don't want to get married. If you feel marriage is something you want, move on before you become so attached that it breaks your heart to do so. LISTEN to what he is telling you. Actually HEAR the words and then move forward with what your heart and mind tells you is right for you. You can't change people. You may be able to temporarily change the way they see things but you'll regret it in the long run. Requiring a person to change almost always backfires.

You've been together for less than a year and already you feel you're meant to be together? At 32 he's not going to change his way of thinking and likely the reason he's with a 21yr old is b/c you will change your way of thinking. He's not going to find a woman his own age who will agree with the non-sense he expects you to agree to.

If getting married is important to you then you shouldn't compromise it. Clearly you have very different dreams for the future. The person you're 'meant to be with' won't expect you to throw away your dreams and live out his instead. Do yourself a favor and move on now. Don't get sucked into his garbage.

Your 21? And he's 32? and he wont have a degree untill he's 42, this sound like it won't work.

Honey your too young to be wanting to settle down.

find someone else

he must be having a kind of commitment phobia.

marriage leads to lot of legal commitment & binding, which must be making your BF very cautious.

better watch out or you will get into truoble later.