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My friend promised my teenage stepson a job but now wont respond to any of my calls about it. What do I do?

I'm very upset, hurt, and frustrated about the situation. I went out of my way to help my 16 year old stepson with finding his first job by talking to one of my really good male friends who said he would definitely hire him for the summer. Last time I talked to him he said he just needed to figure out some details and then would get back to me. I called him about a week later after not hearing from him, left him a message, and never heard back from him. I left him 2 more within the last 2 days b/c my stepson was supposed to start work this week and him and his father (my husband) have been asking when he's going to start and need all the right forms to fill out.

I finally called my friend back today and left him a pretty blunt message telling him how frustrated I am and if for some reason he's not going to hire my stepson, then he needs to be direct about it and let me know today. I still have not heard from him...and personally I feel as if now he is avoiding my phone calls and is not going to return them at all.

I am at the point where I am absolutely livid b/c my stepson was left hanging by my good friend who promised him his first job...now I look like the bad person and my stepson is upset with me after I just told him what was going on. If my friend was not intending to hire my stepson, don't you think he should've told either me, my husband, or my stepson that it was prob not going to happen? At least my stepson could have looked for another job this whole time instead of being screwed over at the very last minute!

Am I wrong to be THIS angry and feel so damn betrayed? Please tell me how to go about handling this situation without going over to my friends house and wringing his neck!!!

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  • SuziQ
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago
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    A similar situation happened to me. My daughter was pretty much promised a job that then never materialized. MY friend told me the hiring was taken out of her hands. She only told me this after I pushed her for an answer. I was very upset and you have every right to be, not only that the job never happened but also because he's not responding to you (hopefully nothing has happened to him). My best advice to you is to just let this go and concentrate on helping your step-son find another job. Give your friend one more call, tell him how angry and disappointed you and your family are, and how truly disappointed you are in him as a friend.

    Someday you may hopefully get the chance to deal with him face to face, but wringing his neck (which he deserves) won't help. Take a breath and move on.

    Edit. Ignore Lauren.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    It doesn't sound like he was intending on doing anything. He probably told you he would hire him to make you feel better and never thought another thing about it. You have every right to feel this way and it is totally on him. I know it is hard to get it through to a child, because regardless they are going to think you need to be responsible. I would make every effort to see if he tried to contact you and if not, tell him you can be friends but you can no longer trust him to tell you the truth. Good luck.

  • 1 decade ago

    His silence is your answer. It won't do any good to keep calling or belaboring the situation. The man is a coward and can't face up to his broken promise. Use it as a lesson for your stepson. "Don't make promises you can't keep" and "Admit your mistakes."

    Just let it go now and help your stepson find something else.

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    Lv 4
    4 years ago

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    First of F U CK you he probaly had good intentions but havent you realised there a world economic crisis people would love to have any old job at the moment and you are getting angry at your 16 year ld stepson not getting a job i bet your some snobby ***** that looks down your nose at everything, yes you are wrong to feel like this you "friend" probaly wanted to help but might be on the verge of bankrupcy ever thought of that you dumb biatch .

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    you give him a good job for find a good one for him to step in and help him out

    good luck x

  • 1 decade ago

    well why don't you try talking to the pearson face to face that always works

  • 1 decade ago

    I would be mad too

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