Thoughts on a curfew for a 22 year old female who just graduated college?

A 22yr old WOMAN with Career goals/Career opportunities bigger than that of a vast majority of people her age, who still has her Mother on her back with a curfew?! That’s crazy.

You’re 22yrs old, you do not have to listen to your Mum!! I know out of respect for our parents, we listen and do what we’re told regardless of our age, but if I had a daughter like you who had goals, didn’t get into trouble and made me proud, than I wouldn’t want to smother her with a curfew!! Yes, if she lived under my roof, it’s my rules. But at 22 all I would ask of her is to make sure she kept the house tidy, do her own washing and ironing and if she wanted dinner to be home at 6 for dinner!

Sit your Mum down and say ‘Look Mum, I’m a 22yr old WOMAN, I have a life of my own, I have a boyfriend who I’ve been with for ages, I’ve just Graduated College and I think it’s a bit over the top that I am still on a curfew. I have never failed a class, I have never failed at life, I have never disappointed you, never been in trouble, I’ve done as I’ve been told, I’ve achieved more than most people have at my age and I should be allowed to live my life how I want to live it and that means not having a curfew restricted life’

Like I said and everyone else will say, you’re 22!!! Old enough to stand on your own two feet, old enough to make your own decisions. You don’t sound like an idiot, you don’t sound like a no hoper so your Mother should have nothing but respect, pride and joy toward you and let you live a little!

At 22 you shouldn't have a curfew but since you're staying at home you should still follow the house rules. If that's your parents' policy that you quit making noise by 12, then you should follow that rule as long as you're living at home. She should make an exception if you get a job that keeps you out later than that.

So you live with your parents when you are 22 and about to get married?

Well i think you should move out then you don't have to worry about it. You are 22 years old and if you move out, she can't give you a curfew.

Just stay out as long as u want anyway. I used to have a curfew, but then I started staying out past it and my mom just took it away because she realized she couldnt stop me from staying out. And ur 22, u should have a curfew cuz ur an adult.

I think that curfews for adults is crazy. I know that it is her house but you are a grown woman. She has raised you and now she needs to let you act like an adult.

why do u live with your parents? ur out of college, you shouldnt have a curfew to begin with. but since its her house, its her house so the only thing that i can think of is get a place of ur own.

You're an adult who'll probably be moving out soon. You don't need a curfew.

You're 22.

You're an adult.

I don't see a need for a curfew....

Talk to your mother about it.

Your an adult.

You have your life headed in the right direction.

I say move in with your boyfriend.

He sounds like a nice guy if you are planning on marrying him.

You're an adult you should be able to crawl home whenever ya feel like it :] My opinion tell your mom that she has no reason to not trust you and you think you're responsible enuff to not do something stupid :] Hope I helped!