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what should i do? plaese help me!!?

my " bffl " is dating my bro and now it seems to be all bout him. we used to be the best of frnds and now its always my bro this and my bro that. she says she wood never pick him over me but i dont by it. wen ever we talk by txt or on the fone its always either "what is your bro doing" " can i talk to your bro" or sometimes both. everytime i defend my bro ( long reasons) she makes it look like im the bad guy and evertime i say something she doesnt agree wit she tells my bro and he goes along with it. she says i make her think about our frndship but now she is starting to make me think about our frnd ship. she tells my bro not to tell me things wen she talks behind my back. i used to think we were always going to be frnd but now idk if we can even be frnds anymore. but i need your guys hhelp what shood i do? plzz help me ! thanx

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  • 1 decade ago

    i think u shud mayb talk to ur bro and ur bffl mayb u can work things out. mayb next time u text talk to her b like, "look ur talkin 2 MY email and ur talking 2 ME, if u wanna talk 2 him then talk to HIM. but not through me. member how WE used to be GREATER THAN GREAT friends????! well i do, and i miss that. :( i miss u. i miss my bffl. :(( and i hope and pray that u do to." get ur bro a chat thing and make her talk to him there. well at least thats what i wood do. good luck!

  • 1 decade ago

    Try to tell her that you're kool with her dating your bro but you want to spend equal time with her as she is with ur brother. And try to inform her that you feel uncomfortable about her talking about you behind your back. and maybe you could tell her that if she calls to talk to u, that you would feel better if she didn't ask to talk to ur bro. and that if she wants to talk to your bro, to ask for your bro once she calls. hopefully this helps. well, Good Luck!!!!!!

  • 1 decade ago

    shes trouble. stay away from people like that. She is being a witch

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