I cant figure him out! do i write him?! GUYS HELP!!

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ok me and this guy have been friends now for almost 2 years we have always had crushes on each but back then i was a big player (im a girl) and i really didn't want to hurt him so i never tried asking him out. we talked every day went to school together and everything. i was the cheerleader n he was the football player. a couple months back he asked me to go and chill hit him at old town of course i said yes. that night we kissed. we hung out a couple more times and i really started getting feelings befor and wen i realized this it me hard so i started calling him alot messaging him 24/7 and then him being him he was nice about but i could feel something was wrong so i asked and he said that i called to much so i said and i backed off. then after a few weeks i wrote him a letter and told him how i felt. i haven't heard from him since. i wanna go back to the way things use to be i Just don't no how to break the ice. i really miss him and wont him back in my life. wat do i do?! (its been almost 2 months since we hung out and almost a month since we talked)

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Give him space. Things will work out....and if he doesn't contact you back, move on, that's what's best.

Anonymous · Answer

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Nunya Business · Answer

Give it more time. If he said you were coming on too strong, it sounds like maybe he wants to have a chance to be the pursuer. So keep your distance, and if you run into each other, keep it casual and don't try to force yourself on him. Let him make the first move, and be prepared to let go if he doesn't.

Mr.L · Answer

Tell him to grow a pair and treat you with some Respect. Any grown woman shouldn't have to put up with that type of Sh#t.

cassie · Answer

maybe he thinks ur a lil obssessive .. just talk to him normal nd dont call him 24/7 wait for him to call u

kenzie=] · Answer

i think he feels uncofrtable. just try calling and texting,,,write another letter about what you just said! saying how you want hing to goback to normal again. or restart!

csi2448 · Answer

I'm sure you have his number so text him or call him and tell him that you two need to talk

Austin · Answer

he probbaly isnt contacting you because he most likely didn't really have feelings for you it was just a popularity boost for him to hang out with you>

livelaughlove · Answer

i think if u really love/like him u have to talk to him.

Anonymous · Answer

girls aren't players. you mean slut. leave him a nice snessage

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