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Date Tonight!! Please HELP!!!?

So basically what should I bring in my purse? Does anyone have any advice so that I can calm down, and some good conversation starters....

Please help me this is my first date, and it could possibly be akward since it is a double date:[

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  • 1 decade ago
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    what shoulkd you bring in your purse? haha you´re not going camping abby..

    this is probably the easiest first date you can have. A double date is always easier because the girls can talk about girl stuff, the guys can talk about guy stuff and it will all interwind.

    You don´t need conversation starters, if you´re shy just let the other 3 people start talking about something and give your opinion. Most, if not all conversations are story telling, where you either tell a story or listen to one, and opinions, where you just give your opinion.

    you´re not giving a speech at harvard, you´re going out to have some fun.

    now if you INSIST with the conversation starters, ask for opinions. You might want to catch up on some current events and ask about them. This will impress your date and the other couple, points for you. Ask things like"so what do you guys think about this situation".

    Or ask the guys something funny like "k so i have a question for the guys.. what would you guys do if we were entering a party and all of a sudden your date trips and hits the floor like you´ve never seen?"

    this will probably lead to joking around and an overall fun conversation. A little girls vs guys opinion is always fun as long as it is light and fun, stay away from arguing.

  • 1 decade ago

    okay in your purse bring your pocket book, lotion, perfumer, floss(trust me very useful!) your home key's! your cell, a pen (:,make up and extra earring's =) that's about all i can think of.. i have so much crap in my purse !lol

    take a breather do something to get u busy throughout the day until u see this guy! omg no! double dates are the best! there way better than a first date with a guy those are way more awkward (:

  • 1 decade ago

    AWW...don't worry about a thing. I know you have heard this all the time but - be your self. He has already said yes to going out for a date which means he likes you! Seriously, don't worry x carry some dinner mints in your bag - not chewing gum. A double date will not be as awkward as a single date. Make friends with the others - that will make you seem more outgoing therefore he will be attracted to you even more! :)

    Good luck, be yourself and have fun! x

  • 1 decade ago

    1. Double dates are the BEST. Just thought I'd get that through =].

    Okay, well just let it flow. When I first started dating my girlfriend. I noticed when it stopped; we were on the beach one night...holding hands...and the convo just flowed through. But to this day, I never go anywhere without atleast 5 conversation topics in my head.

    So I might see her later.

    Just in case she's in a "Im not very talkative" mood, I have:

    Cake baking (shes a baker)

    How she needs to come over and bake me a cake.

    and then I freestyle, so Ill bring my iPod, and show her my latest song. Have her critique it, etc.

    Good Luck =]

    Hold his/her hand. Keep him/her wanting more!

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    the more you think about it the more you stress, basically just have a good time your gonna be with other people so conversation starters wont be the issue. you dont need to bring anything except gum lol

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    woohoo first dates r sooo much fun! okay just relax and enjoy it! First start with ur outfit... it seem like u can never go wrong with a super cute little sundress and flip flop flats, dangly earrings too. They even have these dresses at wal mart!!!! OKay now think about ur hair and makeup, this is where sisters and moms come in! LOL have em help you! If you have long hair, curly is soooooooo cute, short straight and sexy. Have fun and relax!

  • 1 decade ago

    double dates aree ffuuun!!!!

    lol bring extra make up to touch up throughout the date, breath mints, and lip chap,tampons, cash. ooo and pepper spray :p haha jkkk.

    thats about it :D

    ohh and just talk about stuff around you and you will have a flowing conversation lol trust me its really natural. orrrr.. you could ask him hows school? play any sports? hows ur summer been so far? how r u? do u have any pets? any sibilings?

    stuff like dat :D

    peace<3

    and good luckkk!!!

  • 1 decade ago

    In your purse: 1)extra makeup (if you wear it) eg. lipgloss, mascara, eyeliner.

    2)mobile-but turn it off, that is the worst thing to happen in the middle of a date.

    3)Little bit of money-just in case

    4)TISSUES-in case you sneeze, you dont want to do it all over him or your mate/mates boyfriend

    CONVERSATION STARTERS

    say how are you doin

    talk about your hobbies/interests.

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