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Boyfriend distancing himself...?

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. The relationship was pretty rocky during the start but it has been very good lately. We have lived together since last July and things have been going well. We have an occasional fight now and then. Right now though, I am attending school and I have been gone for one month so far. I came back and my boyfriend was happy to see me but then I had to go away for a couple more days and when I came back I asked for a kiss. I missed him. He said he didn't like to kiss me in public...there really hasn't been a problem before. Then later on that night he said that he just needs some space. He didn't say anything about breaking up but he meant that I am suffocating him I guess. We haven't slept in the same bed for about a month and we don't have sex but rarely anymore. I don't understand how much more space he thinks he needs if I haven't really properly seen him in a month. My question is what is he trying to accomplish by distancing himself from me?...sorry so long.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    wow that really sucks. i cant believe he would want more space after youve been gone for so long!! i really hope he hasn't found someone else since you've left. either way, it sounds to me like if he wants a break then you should give it to him. break up with him and find someone that will want you there, and would be honored to kiss you in public! good luck!!!

  • 1 decade ago

    Sorry, but all those signs sounds like he's got another girl on the side. I wouldn't jump to conclusions, but don't think of him as completely innocent either. You shouldn't talk to him for awhile till he figures it out. Don't make it out as to where he can do whatever he wants and you'll always be there. It's not fair to you.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Amber you make space a way from him.

    Go hide

    don't call him

    act like you dropped off the face of the EARTH.

    See if he comes back around.

    BUT it seems as tho to me, he has moved on.

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