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Are these his real feelings?

My boyfriend never tells me how he feels about me. I don't think he's ever told me, only when I asked. But in dreams, he tells me he loves me and he never wants to lose me. He's a lot more affectionate. But in real life, I know he does, but he doesn't ever say. Are these really his feelings? Or are they what I wish he was?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    ur going off of a dream? wow...ok. Yeah he might like u a ton but guys dont like to talk about their emotions. So its not a big deal. Your going to have to get used to that and even expect it. Gameplan for it maybe. Your dreams are how you want things to be...not reality by any means.

    So don't take his non-talative mood personally...we're ALL like that. Just keep workin at it.

  • 1 decade ago

    It's possible that he loves you but isn't the type of guy who's affectionate. I definitely wouldn't go by what happens in your dreams though, because that is just wishful thinking.

    I would talk about it with him more and find out why he never expresses himself without you prompting it. Tell him you need him to be able to talk about it, without having to nag at him. If he loves you, he'll make an effort to help you feel secure in your relationship.

    Good luck.

  • 1 decade ago

    Your dreams are what your subconscious wants, not what he actually feels. He may just be understated and not good at sharing his feelings, but you should also consider the possibility that "he's just not that into you."

    Enjoy the relationship for what it is, but if it's not at the level you want it to be, and you've been honest without badgering him, then make the tough choice and move on. If he didn't care that much anyway, I guarantee you'll be glad you made a clean break.

  • Dani
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Theres a good possibility hes just shy about these things, and he just dosnt particularly know how to show you by saying something, without randomly going up to you and going I LOVE YOU!

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  • 1 decade ago

    I would say your dreams are just dreams. If he is not giving you what you need ask for it and if he still wont give it leave

  • 1 decade ago

    alot of time guys are bad at explaining their feelings so give him a chance and dont ask if he does beacause then he will say it just to make you happy.

  • 1 decade ago

    you could be trying to live in a dream world and you might not.. ask him before its wayyy to late... you dont want to continue things to find out its not true..

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    guys are not the people to sit down tell you how they feel unless they are a emo i don't expess my feeling because it a guy thing

  • 1 decade ago

    Ask him, and get him to answer. He could not love you, and just doesnt wanna hurt you.

  • 1 decade ago

    hi, they are definitely his feelings, but he is a little bit shy.

    i know that because myy boy friend is the same as yours

    Source(s): life teaches wisdom!
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