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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

How can I get a nice girlfriend?

I dress fairly nice with my own style, Im moderately attractive, I do art, and many people say I'm the funniest kid ever. My only problem is I have an emotional problem with getting a girlfriend. The last two girlfriends I had, had sex with the same guy, the one before that traded up because I dont smoke weed, etc. I feel so inferior, I know I'm not perfect or anything, but do I really deserve something bad like that? Any tips on how I could meet someone real?

Update:

Thank you for the informative answers, I try not to worry about it so much. But I feel alone all the time for some reason. and I cant hang out with my friends since they spend of their time with their year long relationships, and I try to respect that.

Update 2:

I really want to thank everyone who wrote an answer right here, I've been feeling down lately, and I gotta admit, you all have made me feel a little better about myself. I needed that from someone

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    my best advice is to get into a cab and ask the driver where the kids drink. go there, pretend you are a loner who is young and wise but troubled at the same time (to achieve this you should grow a lil mustache and wear sophisticated glasses but shop at cool stores). you will talk to a girl and then invite her over and talk to her about how weird life is and how important it is to just be authentic and true to yourself, this is how you will one day find your wife.

  • 1 decade ago

    Be the type of guy that would make a good boyfriend for the type of girl you would want to be your boyfriend. If you're as great as you sound, it is only a matter of time before the right girl comes along. In the mean time, try to not stress about not having a girlfriend, and don't waste your time on girls that you know you aren't meant to be with. Good luck!

  • 1 decade ago

    I don't know how old you are, but i'm guessing high school. Honestly, girls in high school a lot of times don't really know how to pick the right kind of guys. Stick with what you're doing and you'll eventually meet a girl mature enough to understand she's found someone really good. Just know it may not happen until you're in college or even after college.

  • 1 decade ago

    when the time comes you will find there someone for you. i know that somewhere out there there is somone meant for you. you just have be patient. Do go for the sluty girls, or the ones that are flirty with every guy just .get someone friendly girl keep on looking don't give up

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  • 1 decade ago

    thats a good thing that u don't do any of that stuf like have sex and smoke and crap becaus the kind of girl your looking for dosen't like any of that. but the only advice i can give u is be your self and don't lose hope theres someone out there fro everyone.

    lol = )~

  • 1 decade ago

    It really does sound like you're on the right track. Just be yourself and the right girl will come along.

  • Aimee
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    No. I don't think it the jerk part that give woman the attraction. IT jsut that the jerk usally has the confidence to ask and flirt. Good guys are usually shy And believe me. All it takes is a little confidence

  • i would go out with you...based off your personality at least.

    im sure a lot of people would too. you sound really sweet, you just have to find the right person.

    your past two girlfriends i can say are stupid. youll find your real person soon.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    you can meet somewhere anywhere, just dont be afraid.

    dont let those two girls bring you down, i promise not all girls are like that.

    keep being yourself, youll find a perfect girl.

    and i think weed is discusting, its a huge turn off for me.

  • 1 decade ago

    Quit worrying about meeting someone, the more you worry the more creepy guy vibes you send out into the universe, it'll happen when you are ready.

    Source(s): life.
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