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How to flirt with a 13 year old guy?
ok, so im 13 and everyone says that 13 year-olds shouldn't flirt but if u were our age, u would understand. I used to be the most AWESOME flirter in elementary school, 6th grade and 5th. That was because i was popular... but in middle school, im very popular still but im not the MOST popular and im not used to it. I lost my flirty side and for some reason i dont know how to act around guys. Especially this one certain guy.Dont say BE YOURSELF or anything because i know i should do that, i just want to know what to do to see if he likes me. Im arfraid if i try to flirt, it will be weird... PLEASE HELP!!! im meeting him 2morrow at his house!!!!!!!!!!! BTW, not for anything sexual... our moms are good friends and we have been for 10 years... we went to preschool 2gether
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
OMG! I am also 13 and I went through the same thing. U don't have 2 be the MOST popular girl. Besides, if u have known him for this long, it shouldn't be tooo awkward. It's ok 2 be a little flirty but not 2 flirty! U don't want 2 make him think that u r crazy and obsessed. Don't do sexy flirty, but innocent flirty. Because it might be a little weird for him to think of u that way. If he reacts weirdly then STOP! But if he flirts a little 2 then just ask him out! But don't just sit along the sidelines and watch him chose another girl. Use what u have
- Anonymous5 years ago
Yes. First of all, why are you having sex with so many guys at such a young age? It might not seem like it, but I promise you will regret this later in life (experience). Second of all, don't you ever wonder what an 18, 19 or 20 year old adult man wants with a child? I know it's hard to see yourself that way, but you are a CHILD. These men are perverts (trust me there is enough girls their age. For them to be having sex with you makes them pedophiles) and you need to think about what you're doing.
- ElleLv 41 decade ago
Just hang out. Don't try and get him to be your boyfriend. Young boys that age want cool girls that like video games and sports and stuff not the ones in mini skirts that act dumb and are afraid to break a nail and act ditzy. Be cool. I doubt he will notice the flirting or think there is something wrong with you. It might make him uncomfortable and he might ignore you and leave with a friend or play video games and not talk to you. You can be nice try rollerblading or bike riding. I don't think he would like it if you act cute and bring him cupcakes he won't notice. Be friends. Maybe later on down the road if he thinks you are an awesome trust worthy friend he might want to start holding your hand or ask you to be his girlfriend if he thinks you are pretty cool. do you do any of the stuff he likes like skateboard or play basketball? If not maybe you could ask him to show you how to play a video game or something. Just hang out and be friends.
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- 1 decade ago
I know what you mean; we've all been there.
Well you're right, you SHOULD be yourself, haha :)
Flirting is an art. Just by laughing or giggling at his slightest remarks might draw his attention towards you.
If you see he needs help doing something, offer to help him.
In other words, be around when he needs you.
Flirting is not meant to be "whorish" (excuse the lack of a better word) It doesn't mean 'putting yourself out there' in a revealing or inappropriate way.
Just get him to notice you in all the good ways. :) Before you know it, he'll be around the corner trying to get your attention.
Best of luck
- 1 decade ago
read his body language and use that to see if he likes you http://www.links2love.com/teens_flirting_3.htm this website helped me. The way i found out a guy like me was his pupils got bigger when i waled into the room. If you sitting on a couch watch how he folds his legs. If he folds them towards you that's a dead give away he likes you. If your watching TV or sumthin make a comment about ppl flirting or somthin 2 do with relationships. And trust me the rest of your convos will be on that topic... Just what you want.
Good Luck!
- 1 decade ago
Get close to him, make sure you're touching (non pervertedly), laugh at his jokes, but not to much. Smile a lot. Compliment him.
And this wierd one worked for me: Tell him a cheesy pick up line, then laugh and said your friend dared you to flirt with him.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
You're 13. I'm 16.
You're in elementary school. I'm in highschool.
In highschool, people who flirt and date in elementary school are considered 'whores' in highschool. Because well, they've been dated already or 'used'.
Wait till highschool, sweetheart. You'll be thankful that you did.
Source(s): Experience. :] - 1 decade ago
my story is the same but i don't have a reason to ask this question. first you can flirt by saying that he looks nice. or if he does something nice say that he is the nicest person ever and kiss him on the cheek you should text him call him or hang out and make plans. i have an older brother and to hang out with his girlfriends he has my dad drop off some of his friends and there girlfriends to the movies as a group date
Source(s): www.cosmogirl.com/boys/guide-to-guys/how-text-flirt - 1 decade ago
What makes you want to date a guy you knew for 10 years? If you have known each other long, it shouldn't be hard to pick up on him.