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Young boi asked in HealthWomen's Health · 1 decade ago

Can A young female lose her sex drive?

I am almost 18 old,I decided to be celibate after me and my boyfriend seperated,its been 2 months and sex hasnt cross my mind like it used to,when i used to look at pornos i would want to do what they wanna do and when i see people kissing I tend to act like a child when they see grownups kissing but now i no longer have the urge.Is this normal?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    It can and does happen

    You're prolly still getting over your ex tho

    Give it a little time

  • 1 decade ago

    One common problem that happens is this. I have been there and done that. You have to figure out what it is first that is destroying your sex drive. If your on medication like birth control or anti-depressants that is something to think about and do research on. Other then that it could just be stress, maybe the kids, really anything that makes your life stressful can do this and lower the libido.

    One thing I tried that seemed to work while I was doing it was exercising. I just felt sexier doing it which kind of boosted my libido. However it wasn't the best solution for me. My friend told me about these herbal enhancers that are made from natural herbs and don't cause any side effects besides having wild sex. She said it's the female version of viagra. I had to find out.

    I would always have a weak orgasm too (if I had one at all), which after trying this sex enhancer, it boosted them tremendously. I don't get multiple orgasms but I've had plenty since being on these herbs. It's seriously like the best vibrator ride you've ever experienced. These things make me horny all the time, some days I don't even take them because the urge is just too strong.

    Don't try out single herbs because they don't do it like the blend of herbs these scientists and researchers pick out. I've tried a couple of them by itself and they did crap. The stuff that I'm on is called Hersolution, at the time I saved money on it at herenhancement.com . Make sure you get the 3 month supply that way you fall under the guarantee/return policy if the herbs don't work for you, you can return them with no questions ask. I bet they will work though and you won't have any problems. Also if your on medication of any sort, check out the gel because if your like me, you wouldn't want to swallow any thing that might react with the medications your already on.

    Well have a good day and hopefully you solved your problem.

  • 1 decade ago

    Totally. Sex drive is really a complex emotional, mental and physical phenomenon. I'm only 30 and generally have a good sex drive, but there have been times when I just haven't had the urge for months. It will come back. Your body will let you know when you (all of you... like even the part that needed to heal after your split with your bf) are ready. And porn will be as good as it once was when that time comes....

  • 1 decade ago

    Our bodies go through periods of intense desire or lack there of. I was raped in college & after that I didn't even want be near men. You may be experiencing the same kind of withdrawl. Your sexual being is taking a back seat to your emotional being. It sounds weird but out bodies know how to take care of themselves & what you need to do now is come to terms with your breakup & heal yourself. Once you are solvent your sex drive will come back, I promise.

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