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How should I handle this situation?

. and am I wrong for feeling this way. My husband gets back into police work. He takes breaks at local truck stop on way to my daughters house. He tells me I can come by and see him when he is there. I drive up he is sitting with three women and a couple of guys. One women is holding her baby and points to me when I drive up the other is sitting with him. Another is in a booth behind him hanging over. They jump up when I start in and he jumps up and rushes me out door accusing him of spying on him he would not let me get a cup of coffee or introduce me to them. He yelled at me and got in his car then when I went tell him by he pushed me out of car and shut window. They are laughing hysterically at me. I was hurt and humiliated. He said I was imaging things and accused me of not trusting him. Well, I told him that this did not make me feel like the situation was all that innocent. How should I handle this situation with him I am hurt.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    if he is so quick to accuse you, then what is the big deal of seeing you? by simply laughing at you, its a big sign of disrespect. Honestly, do you want to be with somebody who treats you like that? If he is using you as the butt of the jokes..i would honestly tell him that your not going to put up with it..i'm sure that you love him but imagine that someone else would never do that! imagine it happening to someone else what would you do? sit back with a shocked expression or feel bad for the lady(you) so if he cant change.. you know what the right thing is to do. what could be be hiding thats so innocent to act like that?

  • 1 decade ago

    Not to sound hurtful....but something seems "really wrong" in the mental image I get of this situation.

    The acting so "Offensive / Defensive" coming from a spouse.....just opens up a LARGE CAN of suspicion to me.

    I think U need to do a little of your own investigating.....sorry...:o((

    Listen to your gut...its right more than it isn't.

    Source(s): My experience....ACTIONS speak louder than words.... Observation IS a great tool....
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