dose he like me or is he plaing the part to get in my pants?

The secret is if he wants to spend time with you, go places with you, listen to you....then he likes you. If this is just all about him trying to get sex, he wouldn't be spending time getting to know you.

well as always in relationships i would warn you to be careful. you're putting your heart on the line and thats not something that can be readily fixed. however you haven't said anything about him that might lead to the idea that he's just a player. so if there are any things about him that give you that idea please add it to your question. if not then just enjoy being with him. just because he was a jock in high school and to you it appears he can have anyone he wants doesnt mean that he is better than you or couldnt just want you out of everyone. and dont hide your relationship. even with the haters. eventually it'll come out sooner or later. and i'm not saying to shout out to the world that you're together but don't not go somewhere with him or something because you're afraid people might see or suspect something.

love&learn.

You know what, any man, if his head gets constantly rubbed by soft and delicate hands of any average looking or gorgeous looking girl, or gets hugged and bumps into a girl's anatomy once too often, and gets kissed too, would certainly get turned on. That's what I see in the two of you. You are too intimate, he is somewhat passive. But he likes you. If he gets into your pants, well, it's because you asked for it. :)

You better wait to be assured that he has feelings for you before you even consider continuing what you've been doing to him. You are arousing him (to say it frankly). Do that to any man and he heats up. Whew!

The question goes back to you: Do you like him that much for you to provide opportunities for him to fondle you back, and to go to the point of no return?

Go for it.

Dont give a crap but what others say or think. As long as you and the dude is happy. Their are gonna be people that are gonna talk behind your back no matter what relationship you are in.

Just how life works with people.

As long as your happy and he is too then go for it and if it doesnt work out then learn from it dont be a victim

The short answer would be yes it definitely sounds like he likes you and if he has any sense then he will be trying to get into your pants. Take it easy and see what develops. Maybe he is just shy around you because he fancies.

Hey, do you really know what Mogwai is ?

If yes then I'm sure you'll know how to play him out.

If not, then you're actually Jongwai,

which means you've met ghost and sucks you up.

However, if you feel the feelings were true to yourself,

then I believe you should bring it on.

And you can take it as PeiGwaiJak,

which means, press by a ghost haha!

Don't give it up. If someone cares for you they will wait for as long as it takes. This is the only way you will know for sure. As you are in a small town better to be safe than sorry.

Well.

You can't tell when they are or aren't right now.

They are very manipulative, which I hate.

Just to find out, make him work for what he wants.

And if he actually works for it.

Then that shows he really wants to be with you.

Good Luck :)

look, guys don't talk for hours if they din't have something to say. as far as what people say in a small town, listen to one of two songs; "small town" by john cougar, or "famous in a small town" by miranda lambert. those two songs might answer your question. if not, well.....

he might have been the jock in highschool but it seem to me that he has wised up and grown up too it sounds like he might have found a real good friend he can talk too.and it sound like he might be a good friend just to hang around with .