so i been dating this guy for about 6 months and he still hasn't told his mom about me?

First, find out from him WHY he hasn't mentioned you yet. I can understand your concern and hurt feelings for sure (I've been through this before myself) but you might find his reasons to be less hurtful than you assume.

He may have very protective parents, they may have caused some trouble for him and a previous girlfriend, or he may just feel it isn't any of their business yet. He also may just see it as a HUGE step in the relationship to let them know. All these things are understandable. Of course, he could also be a serious jerk and the reason could be selfish.

You won't know though until you ask him for an honest reason, so sit down and have a heart-to-heart.

I've been dating & living with the same guy now for 2 years- his parents didn't find out until 6 months ago although mine family has known since the beginning. He didn't tell them because he knew they were very critical and he has had problems with them being overly protective in the past. He waited until he thought was the right time and guess what? It was! When they finally met me they were very happy. So it does work out sometimes!

I'll keep my fingers crossed for you two- good luck & have that talk with him!

you do no longer might desire to get married. Six months is about a minutes. snoozing at the same time is ordinary. Staying married is purely no longer consumer-friendly. Take some time. do no longer make any babies. See the place this is going. you're no longer an old female. in view that he's no longer in a hurry and you're no longer in a hurry, tell your mom to sit down down back. it is your existence. enable him address the shooting. enable him choose for a manner he needs his existence to shape up. possibly he can decide the thank you to stay away from getting shot at and the thank you to maintain his female from getting shot at too. Then he could have the capacity to devise for the destiny. while he thinks that he is going to get shot at back, I wager is confusing to devise for a spouse and relatives. He might might desire to choose for the thank you to alter his existence innovations so which you and he don't get shot at back. Is he the proper guy for you? You get to choose for specific and no, too. How do you experience appropriate to the shooting? you have got been shot, too. do you opt to stay like that? what style of artwork do you go with? what style of artwork does he choose? God Bless you and assist you're making the proper judgements.

If you are both serious about each other and plan to have a future together that can only be possible if he includes you in his family. If he loves you he should be proud to have you as his girlfriend and part of his family. You are proud enough of him to include him in your family, I think you deserve the same from him. Hope it all works out!

I do the same thing. I don't know why I do it but I just don't tell my parents about my relationships. I'm afraid they won't like the guy or don't want me to have a boyfriend. Give him a little more time and tell him how you feel about it.

Listen, this guy should have already told his mom about you, i would say if he hasn't yet hes probably not very committed. If your serious about him then you should sit down with him and explain your feelings. if he still doesn't tell her then he must not respect you.