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What should I do about reuniting with an old boyfriend?
I have not seen him in 33 years, we were serious in high school, after I graduated he joined the Navy. We wrote to each other quite often and finally stopped. He found me after all this time and said he had been back home a few times and would always ask about me. He was the one that got away. We have planned a meeting, but should I really? He broke my heart. Plus, on our last date, things got a little heated and I got pregnant and never told him. Lost the baby. Just alot of mixed feelings please help???
4 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
I would go ahead and meet him. You will probably find that 33 years has softened a lot of the intensity of your youth.
Who knows? Maybe that old flame will still be there and you might end up together at last.
If not, you might find that a beautiful friendship is possible between you.
If nothing sparks between you, at least you might be able to find some closure for yourself.
You will always be left wondering if you don't find out for sure, one way or the other.
Good luck!
- Anonymous1 decade ago
What is the harm in meeting with him.. This doesn't mean that you have to pick up the relationship.. Have a friendly meeting to catch up.. and see what happens... In all of that time he could have matured.. and things could be better... or not which you will be able to tell if you try the whole friends thing out. =)
- 1 decade ago
Follow your heart if you truly love him then have that meeting because you might be looking at this 20 year later and regretting it.
but if he broke your heart and you don't feel okay to go out with him any more than cancel it.
you know yourself better than i do.
i just hope you make the right decision
All the best,
Alice
xoxoxoxooxo
- 1 decade ago
You need to tell him about the baby. He needs to know. But I say that you should sit him down and let everything out. But if he hurt you seriously, you need to let him go.
