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Am i over reacting? I am a bit sad.... Plz tell me your views on this....?
Today in college me & my boyfriend were with our friends at our usual hangout. A boy (some stranger) came and sat by us and was smoking. I have bronchitis + asthma and all this smoke really bothers me a lot. i thought my bf would tell that person to sit a lil far so i would be okay but instead he told me to forget about it.
Why didn't he stand up for me? i am a bit sad... am i over reacting?
:(
15 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
I think u are a over reacting a bit!
I mean i know how u feel because i had something similar happen but, i asked my BF why he didn't stand up for me and he said he wasnt thinking about it at that time and that he didnt do it on purpose that he thought i was going to be ok..
Maybe thats how ur BF feels.... talk to him not accusing him just ask like ... hey why didn't you say anything to that guy? say it calm i dont want u getting into a fight!
- 1 decade ago
Well if you're in college it sounds to be like you're a big girl and could have spoken up yourself. however, I've been around the block and I know how women work (and yes you are over reacting). He should have at least said something in a respectful manner to show his woman that he cares (that's all you really wanted out of this anyway isn't it?). Other options if you both are too afraid to speak up next time...leave!
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Well as a smoker if he would have asked me to move I would have, but not all smokers would oblige so easily. Maybe he didn't want a confrontation. Was there a place for the dude to move to? If there wasn't that may have been another reason why he didn't say anything.
- 1 decade ago
U are kinda over reacting.. I wouldnt let it bother u..its really a minor situation. Maybe be honest with him and ask him why he didnt tell him to move?
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- ?Lv 44 years ago
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- 1 decade ago
no, u weren't necessarily overreacting. maybe your man just isn't as manly as you thought he was. he might need a talking to. if next time he hesitates or does not step up to the plate in your defese/honor, know that you have a pussy for a man, at which point it will be time to kick him to the curb. weak men are drainers and eventually will just waste your time and your life.
- 1 decade ago
depends on what the guy looked like. i am a fatter kind of guy but could hurt some one bad if need be. i am not afraid of most people but there are te select few that scare me. it could be that he was scared. but if it was a short hypermetabolism skinny guy and wouldnt hurt a fly then you should be pissed.
- 1 decade ago
maybe your boyfriend was a pussyyy, or maybe it wasnt a big deal....i dont think its a big deal....plese dont start shiit with him cuz of this lol
and i hate smoking :] lol or the smokee when people is close to meee
- 1 decade ago
I don't think you are over reacting. Maby you should talk to your boyfriend about it and tell him how you feel.
- 1 decade ago
i dont think ur are or were over reacting, rather u could hav told ur BF to move alonng wit ur friends to the next place,may be sumtimes ur bf too is not able to take it, as they might be diff kind of people around, no matter wat, take it easy, as my suggession...