I am having a major relationship meltdown, and I need some serious advice.. Anyone out there to help?

your already hurting him cause you are fooling around,, the reason why these things are happening things are missing in your relationship, i understand exactly what your going through i am in the same situation as you, but a bit different. my relationship is kinda OK, but the apartment i'm living in my bf pays the rent here and i cannot afford that rent, i started to think what if he cheats or lie, he is lying already it hurts ,etc and i decided to break up where do i go? sometimes we make mistake without thinking. the rent here is expensive and i am not going to empty my account to afford this amount of rent. why do bad things happen to good people? sometimes you are dating Mr. wrong, what will you do when the right one come along?

If you were truly concerned about your boyfriends feelings you wouldn't have been fooling around with another guy. You owe him the truth. You're feeling sorry for yourself because you wanted the best of both worlds and now you're in a mess. If you paid for things in the house, you'll be able to take those. It shouldn't be any worse than a divorce, and people live through those all the time.

Sorry to be blunt, but you're going to need to be a grown up and end things with your boyfriend. Let him find someone else he deserves. It sucks that you don't have money, but you'll figure something out. You can always include the cost of housing in student loans so that you have a roof over your head, you'll just have to live down to your means.

If he means more to you than your boyfriend then get your stuff and settle the details with a lawyer to see about getting your share of the investment back.

You have to follow your heart: some people stay way too long in relationships where they really don't care as much about the spouse/bf/so whatever but they just dont want to hurt them..

If you decide that you really love the BF more then stay and see if he will forgive you.

It is harder than I make it sound

You can't stay if you are unhappy. But at the same time don't expect the new guy to take you in. So start saving up and do what you think is right for the situation.

Fooling around wasn't the best choice you could've made given your situation.

You have to consider which man means more to you, and go with your heart. Money can always be earned again. People are much harder to attain than material goods.

if youre happy with someone else you need to speak up to your bf because if your not happy with him now its gonna get worse and the longer you go hell probably get closer to you and itll make it harder. Come straight out and tell even if it hurts him its better than keeping it a secret. As for the money get a job.

Your worried about the boyfriend, but you fooled around with the other guy... Hmm people truly puzzle me...

you need to one of two things you either need to work out the relationship with him if you want to still live where you live now.......either that you need to tell him what going on and than talk to the other guy and tell him the same thing and ask to live with him.........

"madly inlove with a soldier", i agree