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Friends treating me like...............?
Hi. My friends are treating me like crap. Today my bff said i copy her all the time, and she said she couldn't come over and later i find out she went to her friend allyssa's house. (and she got asked AFTER i asked her)
I don't know what to do? Keep my mean friends or find a new group?
10 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
First off you have to understand one thing right now: She's not your friend if that's how she's treating you. I know I don't know anything about you besides what you've put here, but I will say this, you need a better friend. Tell her to go bite a curb and find some better ones, the world is full of them :)
- 1 decade ago
deffinitely find some new friends.
these are the kind of people that you can talk to over the internet, maybe in classes at school, but you don't actually get together with them.
you can find some friends that will ASK to go to your house, and they will be loyal to you. apparently your "bff" isn't a true bff. if you do "copy" her, then who cares!? i bet you somebody in the world acts like her anyway, somebody is bound to be copying her anyway.
new friends should be easy to find as long as your nice and you have something to talk about (:
- 1 decade ago
no one should keep mean friends- do not say anything- just make yourself busy with other things, projects, people, and move on with your life. No one needs someone as nasty as your alleged bff.
By the way- the whole bff things is bullcrap. Like people, love people, hang out with them, but lose the labels. The labels become more important than the facts- like here "she is your best friend forever who treats you like crap" . The" treats you like crap" part is what matters not that meaningless label of "bff".
- 1 decade ago
if you've seen this behavior often, it's a problem. if she keeps making up excuses instead of telling you how she truly feels, she isn't a true friend, more like convenience friends. (she still wants to keep you for the sake of it) she may be insecure about the copying thing. you should confront your "bff" and ask her why she is treating you this way, you don't want to waste time on some one who you'll figure wasn't a friend afterall.
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- 1 decade ago
if I was you I would find a better group of friends to hang with. You don't need the stress of being treated badly. trust me on this I went through the same thing years ago, and now I'm better off since I found new friends.
Source(s): life experience - Anonymous1 decade ago
dont stay with friends that treat u like crap ok she wants to give u a attitude give her some to or just ignor her for a long time then she'll come bak n she'll be nice n hang out with lots more friends shell feel ur popular or somthing n come bak n she'll be nice.....personal experience
- 1 decade ago
You are probably that annoying, trying-too-hard girl that is the outcast in your group of friends. Face the fact that they don't like you and find you to be annoying as hell and then move on to people that actually do like you. No need to keep burdening and being burdened when you could be with people that mutually like to be around one another.
- 1 decade ago
if theyre treating you like that then they are not your real friends. or maybe they are, and you just need to confront them with what you are going online to ask.....
talkin is way better than asking questions online....=] jus sayin
- 1 decade ago
It's obvious your friend is a lesbian and she knows that you won't put out. That's why she's going to the other girls house so she can get her legs licked.
- RenLv 51 decade ago
They are not your friends if they are treating you like crap. find nicer friends.