My bfs making me take a lie detector test?

Dump him, relationships are based on trust, and obviously he doesn't trust you. Don't waste your time.

Ok seriously WTF!!!!

Tell him to grow the hell up and stop being so fing insecure. If he cant forgive you for the past and can not trust you in the now then there can not be any future.

Why would you even want to put yourself through all of this. I mean think of it. HE WENT OUT AND GOT A LIE DECTOR BECAUSE YOUR WORD WAS NOT GOOD ENOUGH. If your word is not good enough then what kind of relationship can you guys possible have. Hell if he's the type that would do something like this you could pass it with flying colors he STILL would find something, some reason to not trust you. and if that reason is what happen in the PAST then tell him to call you when he gets over it and you move on with your life. Love is great but in order for it to work you need trust and he does not trust you, he does not trust you because he has not forgiven you in his heart, and why can he not forgive because he has insecurity in his heart where love and forgiveness should be, and who's to say that HE is not out there cheating right now just to get back at you.

I'd f your little test and f you

Honestly, he really must not love you if he's going to dump you because of some dysfunctional lie-detector test. I'd say, if it does go off when you're NOT lying, tell him that it's a piece of crap that's dysfunctional and that you would never lie to him about that. Or you could test it, by having him ask you simple questions, that he knows the answer to, to show it'll go off without you even lying. But if that doesn't work, he's over-protective and needs to get a life and stop living in the dream world. If he's that protective of you, maybe it's for the best if you break up? Will probably cause more problems in the future..

If he really loves you he would keep you even if you were lieing, the thing is crap so tell him that. Tell him "why don;t you believe me I'm telling the truth? How do you know it even works? Why are you going to put our precious relationship in the hands of a dumb machine? If you really cared about me, you would trust me and love me for who i am no matter what it says, and you wouldn't make me do anything i don't want to." and if he still makes you do it, dump him first. Even if you do it and it turns out fine, do you want to be taking lie detecting things all your life? Do you want to be 87 and it say "you lied" and realize you were wasting your life with a loser? don't go any futher. When men start getting bossy in a relationship, its time you leave. I heard thats a sign he will harass you later in life so much you can't escape him. Is that what you want to get to? I would leave, hes probably a loser if he doesn't except your wishes.

Here we go.

Tell him HE should take the test first, and tell him if he wants the relationship to work that he has to let you answer all of your questions before he can start testing you. Give him the same rules also. If he lies once, threaten to break up with him or move or change your name and never speak to and all that stuff. You never know he might be the one who is actually cheating.

Tell him if he doesn't take the test, then neither will you. And if he refuses, stop seeing him until he realizes what douche he's being.

Good luck .

You should not be afraid regardless of what the test may come out as lie or not, if he is so insecure at this stage of the relationship you better off without him , those are the guys that start beating up women cause of their insecurities. So it all comes out to how much you respect your self and what do you think is better for you, this crazy dude or getting the chance of meeting a real guy that will value you for what you do , not for what he thinks in his mind. So i suggest play along or move along.

Take the test.The Directed Lie Test (DLT). This test tries to detect lying by comparing physiological responses when the subject is told to deliberately lie to responses when they tell the truth.The underlying theory of the polygraph is that when people lie they also get measurably nervous about lying. The heartbeat increases, blood pressure goes up, breathing rhythms change, perspiration increases, etc. A baseline for these physiological characteristics is established by asking the subject questions whose answers your boyfriend knows. Deviation from the baseline for truthfulness is taken as sign of lying.

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Just dump him. He doesn't trust you, so you shouldn't be together.

@ ignorant people: Not all people who give lie detector tests know what they are doing. I imagine her BF hired some cheap guy who will give inaccurate results. The good ones charge more for a reason. Keep in mind there is always a margin for human error. People in general are incompetent morons in my experience.

Once the lie detector test says you are telling the truth, you need to dump his a**

Wait you guys are 16??!!!? You shouldn't get married so early, especially with this trust problem.

just dont worry about it. if it says your lieing and he believes a stupid little machine over you then oh well! just move on cause obviously hes not worth it anywaise. find a guy who trust you and believes you. i dont see why he would make you take that ****. just dont trip over it because then hes really gonna think u did something. but honestly i dont think hes worth all your stress if hes gonna do something stupid like that and doesnt even trust you. thats just stupid. if he leaves you so what let him go theres other fish in the sea and yea its gonna hurt but youll move on and find some one better one day and look back at him as just a memory. good luck hope i helped.

Okay. If i were you, i would just pour out all the feelings I feel for my bf, like what you wrote above. Tell him you love him, and there is no other man in your life. Tell him that this is unfair for a piece of crap to come and decide whether he should dump you or not. Your absolutely right, this is ******* ridiculous. Stand up for you and your love towards hiim. If he doesnt understand, dump him, because he is not worthy of your love.

hope i helped. :)