I cheated on my girl and now im screwed!?

MAYBE YOU SHOULD THINK BEFORE YOU ACT. AND IF YOU REALLY LIKE HER THEN SHE SHOULD OF BEEN IN THE BACK OF YOUR HEAD THE WHOLE TIME WHEN YOU WERE TALKING TO THAT GIRL.

i'm not taking sides with anyone, I am simply saying what I think. You need to look closely at both of these girls and think about what your relationship wit both would be like in the future. Keep in mind that you have a girlfriend of 6 months and you've only known this other girl for a little while. You should not have cheated on your girlfriend. I suggest not telling her that you cheated. If it wasn't serious, it doesn't matter. It was a mistake and it's done. If it were me, I would STOP HOOKING UP WITH THIS CAMP GIRL. Explain to her that you are taken. it may crush her but trust me, she'll get over it and find someone else. And yes, you are an ****** for cheating.

*sigh* My initial reaction (being that i am female) is to yell at you. However, i reigned in that urge in order to give a bit of advice. I gather from your post that you are relatively young (in ur early teens i would guess since u are at camp, and not to mention the rash "i love you's" that are being thrown around). I don't truly believe that u are trying to hurt anyone, but perhaps trying to have ur cake and eat it 2. Who do u care more about? You are obviously attracted to this random camp girl (by the way she probably doesn't really LOVE you, but she does have feelings and u should not mess with them). And u like the girl back home (who by the way will be there when u get back and camp girl will not be). Try to tell camp chick that u are sorry, u do have a girl back home, but u just got caught up in the moment. Please be faithful. It puts a damper on men world wide when u cheat. We lose faith in u all.

Your not screwed and you don't have to come "totally" clean, tell the girl from camp that stuff just isn't going to work out that she is a wonderful girl and how you would just love to be with her more but also tell her (truthful part now) that she deserves better than you and hope that she will find a man that gives her everything that she deserves. kiss her on the cheek or give her a hug and walk away (unless she has something to say then you gotta ride it out)

WOWWW lol

first u have to tell the girl that u hooked up with that shes awesome and really pretty but that u kinda like this other girl and that u hope u and her can b friends

(even tho u dont like her it doesnt hurt to be nice plus this way u let her kno that u like some1 else and she wont hate u)

as ur girl goes just make sure she doesnt find out

and u have to stop cheating cuz sooner or later it will catch up to u just b carefull

good luck

lie,lie,lie and deny, give new chick fake address and # and DO NOT EVER tell your girl and if you love her never put yourself in that position again, forgive yourself learn from your retarded mistake/brain fart moment or whatever you want to call it and move on it's not like you've been together long, but the next time this oppurtunity arises thump it in the head and call your girl and tell her you love her but ONLY if you know you do ,if you telll her and you continue to be together and she says she forgives you, than she's just as full of it asthe person who cheated telling her is really just a way of relieving your guilt, it's bad yeah but not like u committed adultery/make up your mind if you care about this new chick after only 2 nights and the other your not sure if you even love her, then you're just in love with lust and should slow things down and figure out if you are really a one woman man yet

ok u r screwed but u should just tell the other girl the truth she might hate u but isn't the 6 month relationship more important than a little hook up but i know what u mean i've been there i've dated a guy for 5 months and cheated with an ex 1 night and i felt horrible but i told the the ex instead of the current bf and i kept it my dirty little secret but my and my bf r still 2gether and happy.

Yes you are screwed. You deserve to lose both. Thats the only way things will work out for the best. They will both be devastated but youre a loser and I hope they know better.

Frankly I think the camp girl is a freak...if she thinks she loves you....because she's obviously JUST A FLING.

So if you dont want to lose both..I suggest you lose the freak.

you should tell your girlfriend before someone else tells her! explain the situation! now to the girl you hooked up with you should explain to her you have a girlfriend who means alot to you! but if this isn't the first time you have cheated on her than your pretty much screwed! if it is the first time and you explain it to her as soon as you talk to her next in person than she may be mad but if she really loved you like she said than she will forgive you and just not trust you as much until you give her a reason to, so you may want to do small little things to rebuild her trust! Hope i helped :))

Tell the girl at camp it was a mistake. I know it will suck to hurt her feelings but who do you have stronger feelings for? Someone you just hocked up with last night or someone you have been with for 6 months. At least you will have a chance to salvage your relationship if you come clean & it seems like you know you made a mistake.

ok, from a guys perspective. you are what you say you are...

obviously you dont like her like you say you do, or you wouldnt have done such a thing. if you really like someone you think about them ALOT, especially when they are around.

hiding the truth will get you by for awhile, til the guilt is to much then everthing up to that point will seem like a lie to her.

my advice, honesty hurts, but its better in the long run, your gf will probably hate you for doing what you did, but will like the fact you told the truth, maybe giving you a 2nd try. but i dont think you deserve it, with this girl atleast.

learn from your mistake and move on.