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How can deal with this situation?

I recently met a pretty woman. I think there was some chemistry between us. Here is the problem, she is still married, her husband cheated on her with his secretary, the guy already moved with her. They have a 2 year old babe. I asked out but she told me that she would like but she is afraid that her husband could take her son away , I understand she does not want to be seen with anybody else until they finish the divorce. My question is, how can I deal with this situation???????????

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Take a cold shower

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    hey, well this situation seems like a difficult one to you, isn't it but its not ;)

    if you really love someone you should understand her first, understand what she's going through, she loves u as much she loves her son too and it will be no good if she's separated from her kiddy she'll be the one who's gonna suffer more, let things move on like a smooth wave, if u do love her then u gonna have some patience to wait it might be long but love is also known as "wait for the one you love".

    no kidding i know its hard for you to not meet her or to talk with her but there are others way in contacting her till she get her divorce right?

    do things secretly but be careful because the eyes of others don't stop into peeping in what they're not concerned about.

    be at ease, relax yourself, remain calm n be happy.. wait today n live tomorrow ;)

    hope this help u out a lil bit ;)

  • ?
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    You really have no choice here except to honor her wishes and wait and be patient til the divorce is over. In all reality, if she did date you, hubby cant do anything about it and it wouldnt get him custody but if this is how she feels then so be it, sorry

    Source(s): Florida Paralegal with a BS degree in Social-Pyschology
  • 1 decade ago

    honestly, I think it sounds kinda fishy. he already lives with his secretary he cheated on his wife with. What could her dating you possibly damage? But lets say shes really truly worried- I say respect that- and try and wait. This may be the kiss of death- but be her friend in the mean time- trying to pressure her wont help.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I would be patient and wait it out. You can offer her your support, and be there whenever she needs you. Be there for her to support, but give her the space she needs to finish up her divorce and get things sorted out on that end.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Wait until the divorce is final, or date someone else!

  • 1 decade ago

    You can deal with it by using fewer question marks.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    Maintain a friendship and be patient.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    If you're really that into her, respect her wishes!!! Its that easy....continue as you are til she's ready

  • 1 decade ago

    easy mate .. just get her to come to your place at night .. you only have to ask .. her .. and wait ... just 3 days .. she will come i bet ..

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