Tokio hotel family,,, read?

[Sorry if this is long, but this is all really bothering me, and I can't really answer without explaining in full :( ]

Hi, in Tokio Hotel 丰- I ♥ Tom!!'s question you said "Just because our TH family fights once in while doesnt mean that people should leave!" and I agree, but the reason Summer and Monika left was because of there being too many new people and stuff... and the reason other people like me think they should leave is because (and if you've read my answer's you'll have heard me say) it's like your so called friends at school saying that there is no more space for you in their group. [EDIT: when I said people like me think they should leave, I meant that ourselves should leave, not Monika and Summer.]

What you said about us just confronting the people we're upset with is a good suggestion, the one of the only constructive ones I've heard so far, because making TH Fam a 'closed group' is a BAD idea. How would you feel if TH wrote to you 'sorry, we're kicking you out of our fandom because you weren't one of our first thousand fans'?

So since I said it was a good idea, then I should follow it and say:

I'm upset at all the people who are saying "we should limit our numbers, and I preferred it before when it was kist a few of us" NOT because they preferred it before, because you are allowed to prefer whatever you like, but because you didn't stop to think that that was a really insensitive thing to say. People like me who only joined a couple of months ago feel really rejected and unwanted... you could at least phrase it nicely.

What you said about families not breaking up and just getting stronger is a nice thought, but trust me, sometimes families do break up and it ends sourly and someone starts feeling like a spare part that is to blame.... and I think blame is the issue here: if you want to leave, then leave, just stop asking/answering, don't specifically blame it on someone. That person will feel bad if you tell them that they have ruined the family.

All my friends are going off to different schools, some of them to other countries, and my circle of friends is broken up. I *thought* you guys were all my friends too, but hearing that you all felt like new people who weren't "original members" were ruining the Family makes me feel backstabbed and like you disdained me all along.

I think new members are a good thing because TH family is "A group of Tokio Hotel fans, mainly on Yahoo!Answers, who love the German Band Tokio Hotel." so not wanting new members would be like saying people should not be allowed to also love TH. (source urbandictionary, and I know I wrote it and that completely destroys it's credibility in making this point but oh well!)

What you said about polls of who is #1 ... do you mean like "Who is the funniest member of TH family"? Because they seem like harmless fun to me whereas using terms like 'original members' creates a double standard and segregates and alienates members of the group. When people say stuff like that it makes some of us feel unwanted and like second class citizens or members or TH Family.

Sorry if I'm going on for a while, but imagine if your stepmom told you that you were the reason that she and your dad were getting divorced... it makes you feel like you don't want to be part of the family anymore, right?

I seriously don't think its fair that the old members are not welcoming the new ones!

Because there probably were fans here like me way before the family!

I think that we should be happy with new members because that makes it bigger and better and if we all are TRUE fans we'd stick TOGETHER and get over this whole ''oh no not new people and fan girls!'' i think its just pure silliness.

Also to the people that are thinking of leaving because of this does that make them a TRUE family member.?! Isn't it all about sticking TOGETHER.

i don't want to be rude but i think everyone needs to get over this little altercation whatever thing and just be a family again.

I haven't been part of it for long but i'm seeing that we need to sort some stuff out xD

Love you guys!

I'm not leaving anymore and i hope nobody else does =( but i can understand why Monica choose to and well that's her choice we just have to accept it and move on. I think if we targeted people it would just get worse so i'm not gonna do that but i think a lot of people are feeling left out with some of the polls and ''who in the family is the most..'' questions i wish we could all go back to just posting news and actually asking questions relating to TH and you're right were a family we just have to sort this out somehow.

I'm blonde but i'm used to it lol And yaaaay! My Bill is single (maybe) But yea, Tokio Hotel eats TONS of junk food and in an interview Tom said that they LOVE in-n-out burger, so they can't be vegitarians. And awww poor Gusti :( Thaks for the update dianna :)

Im mad about people claiming to be original memembers, and here form day one, and how the new fans are ruinging everything.

THAT IS COMPLETE BS.

would you rather toho had only 15 fans?

that no one knew about them?

that they never went on tour here in the americas?

that they just stayed in germany?

that they qui cause they werent getting anywhere?

GUESS WHAT? ITS A GIVEN THAT THEYRE GOING TO GET MORE FANS SO STOP ACTING BRATTY.

And those 'fans' who leaave cause of all the new ones are fake. Yeah. Youu heard me.

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And let the spamming begin...

Ok, I am mad at some people who just quit

You may know who they are.

I will say no more, no names.

But, since they left, they will probably not read what I have to say so, i won't waste my time.

but I would say:

-It is very stupid of you guys thinking that this doesn't work out or that it's over b/c of new people. WTF? You can do Absolutely nothing about it!

Basically you want people to not answer or ask TH questions except if you're 'Family'

I'm not very happy but I will not go at all!

EDIT: yup, I think 'the more the merrier' lol

oi i havent heard much because i haven't been on a lot...can someone fill me in? iv heard there were some people leaving... but why? seriously though there should not be people fighting in this family...whats going to happen if we all turn against each other? it'd be madness!!!

this is turning really ridiculous... in my opinion those people that say that theyre leaving and blah blah is cause they dont feel comfortable being in the family any more.. but wat bothers me the most is that some of them come back and the bad part is that they come back and asnwers questions just to judge your answer... like if the dont like wat u answered theyll just start criticizing...(personal experience in which some girl that said she was leaving and then comes back and starts saying crap about our answers...) so if theyre leaving.. THEN LEAVE... no one is forcing them to stay.. and if they want to come back the theyre welcomed.. but dont come back to simply criticize TH FAMILY members....

wooo...i let it out.. thanks

good idea

all of this is rediculious period.