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Why are my friends acting weird?
I have my friend group, it has 4 people in it; Sara, Tilly, Paige and me.
I was talking to my one of my best friends; Lucy and she wanted to organise me, her and our boyfriends to see a movie. I told Paige about it and she wanted to come too, except with her crush... So I got her crush to come, it was all good. But then, Lucy told three of her friends and they're bringing their dates. Lucy's group kept sitting with my group and talking about the huge date thing, Tilly and Sara were really annoyed at us because we kept talking about it, and normally Tilly makes us play a game at recess and stuff but we didn't, we just talked about the date. Tilly and Sara weren't coming so they got really annoyed. When I had to go to maths (I was quite late), one of Lucy's friends dropped me off. She said bye to me and I went into the classroom and sat next to Tilly. When I sat next to her, she was pretty silent and then she suddenly started being really mean to me saying things like; "Why are you even going on that date?! You're a loser, you can't be going to see a movie with Lucy's group and stuff!" It was really annoying so I went to sit next to Alix (she is one of the populars like Lucy and stuff). Then after math, Tilly started yelling at me again! It was so annoying. I didn't really do anything!
I'm not sure why she is mad at me!
She got Sara to be mad at me, though Sara didn't actually yell at me.
I didn't want to sit with Sara and Tilly anymore so I sat with Lucy and her group. When I got home, Sara and Tilly were being mean to me on msn! Saying like; "I hate you, never speak to me, ever!" They were being mean to Paige too...
Why are they doing this?! Why are they being mean, suddenly?!
(Btw, I'm a grade seven if that changes anything... =P)
7 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Your friends are jeaalous!
Maybe Sara and Tilly feel that you are getting cooler than them, I don't know why they were being mean to Paige though...
You could say sorry, but I don't know what you'd be saying sorry for?! Hmm... Just hang out with Lucy and stuff. Sara and tilly should apologize to you. Maybe you should've invited them too but I think it's too late for that! They were really harsh to you so just forget them!
- ?Lv 41 decade ago
Tilly and Sara felt left out. They felt like the losers!
Why didn't they come, do they have boyfriends?
Whether they do or not, why didn't you ask them if they wanted to come, then explain to them that it was a boyfriend thing so they could choose to say 'no', rather than the two of you going on this date and not inviting them at all?
I think you owe Tilly and Sara an apology.
Here's the thing; even if Tilly and Sara didn't have boyfriends or even crushes , you were supposed to ask anyway. The point is to let THEM say 'no' to YOU, that way they feel they made the decision about whether to go or not and that it wasn't made for them and nobody gets hurt. It's called diplomacy.
Try it. Go to Tilly and Sara and say, "You guys, I dropped the ball on that one and I'm sorry. I should have asked you if you wanted to go". Now you and I know they probably would have said no once you explained the boyfriend angle, but what Tilly and Sara want is a contrite apology.
Give it to them so you all can go on being friends.
Good luck, hon!
- 1 decade ago
They think that you left your group and joined a new one so they got mad. Apologize to them and say that you didn't mean to leave them. All you gotta do after that is hang out with your old buddies again
Source(s): 8-9th grader - 1 decade ago
maybe they wanted it to be just you and your friends. so they got annoyed that some other people are coming. maybe you should've asked them first if it was ok to bring some other people along.
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- 1 decade ago
they're upset because it feels like you left them to be with more popular people. tell them that you didn't want it to seem like you're leaving them and if they still be mean to you then you're better off without them
- 1 decade ago
to make it short,sounds like they are jealous to be going somewhere with people who isn't them, and feel hurt you didnt invite them.
