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17 and never been kissed...?

im 17 yrs old and have never even kissed a guy...

i am really shy and when i boy i knew said he loved me, i nearly freaked out. i had to turn him down cause i didnt know how to handle it...i have always been given sh*t for showing emotion

i would like to know how to help me overcome the way i react and my shyness because i actually kinda like him and i want to talk to him

about it.

has anyone idea how to help me?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Look you will have to overcome the shyness yourself, you need to build confidence. Don't think about being shy or reasons that will make you shy in the first place, just be yourself (and if you are emotional and people give you **** for it, well be that person, forget what others say).

    Remember that life is too short. You just think positive and you can do it. Good Luck :)

  • 1 decade ago

    I was almost 18 before my first kiss, mostly because of shyness. I had guys hint at wanting to kiss me before then, but I was always too afraid I'd do it wrong. Here's the good news, it's natural. Kissing just comes naturally. As for the shyness, I personally grew out of it. I got a job that required public speaking my senior year of college. Now, you can't shut me up, I will talk to anyone. Just remember that everyone has a first time and the worse thing that can happen if you talk to this boy is him saying he's not interested, but you already know he is :)

  • 1 decade ago

    Don't think about it. Let it be. Go out, have fun and the opportunity will come. If you are hung up on it then you are holding it against you as you are thinking about it all the time, and becomes a thought rather than an act. And 17 is not bad. It's perfect for new discoveries. Today people go off too young and many regret it. It's better to have it come to you than chase it. It comes as a surprises and memorable. Flirt, and show it off when you like somebody. Being kind and loving hasn't never hurt anyone. It's better to express emotions than hold them bottled inside. You are young and god knows you will have plenty of tires so it's okay to mess it up first time. Have fun with life, that's your purpose now. Don't dream. Dreaming is for losers, go live it out!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You should keep your never been kissed thing a secret. Just have the guy kiss you first if you're nervous and you can just kind of kiss back. Usually guys think that girls who have never been kissed are just bad kissers, so if it's a secret then guys will just kiss you. But if you want to tell him, then do what you want to do. Hopefully he's a guy that will understand.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    well just talk to him about how u feel about him and that u really like him and that u that u have problems with shyness and u were freaked when he said he almost loved u....so all u need to do is talk to him about how u feel

    Source(s): my brain
  • 1 decade ago

    First you must know is what is the reason you kissing for?

    Some people kissed without think of it.I know it even though i never kiss a girl for this age(24)...

  • 1 decade ago

    i was just like u u just has to act lik he is one of yur friends bout u guys r mor then friends the diference is u guys kiss just pretend lik he is one of yur friends yur best friend with benifits

    Source(s): Experience
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Just close your eyes and pucker up!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    well it because ur shy im asian and im not shy so try to have confidants in yourself

  • 1 decade ago

    Don't kiss yet. You're too young to kiss.

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