How should i tell my bf i miss him and i wish he calls me soon without sounding needy?.?

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i miss my bf a lot there is nothing htat captures my mind but i keep myself busy...................unless and untill there is some urgent emergency which requires my immediate attention i do those things otherwise i just and just keep waiting for him for his mails for his calls and for him............the waiting is really killing and horribly boring.........how should i come out of this............i know its temprerory for very soon i am going to move out to another place and then we will not be in touch so often due to distance and work committment this craves me to be more and more in touch with him now................how do i tell him i am waiting for him without sounding needy..........infact i wish it comes out of him............naturally............but this wait is killing me

Update:

thanks guys and i just did express to him and you know waht i feel so relieved adn great............i think all those people who miss their lovers should really try this it makes u feel normal again...........thanks guys i always knew that i should express but like Lamita i was in doubt of appearing needy and dependent again........i think true relationship is all about expressing and saying what is on ur mind STRAIGHT.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

just tell him, if hes like me, he won't judge you

Anonymous · Answer

You don't have to wait for him. If you feel like being with him just ask him to do something. Being straight forward with yourself with what you want will help. Just tell him that you'd love to go do something with him, and make more dates where you two can be alone. If your relationship is strong and open enough just tell him how you feel. Honesty is always the best policy for anything in life especially in relationships.

LTD · Answer

Tell him you were tinking about him and make a scenario of what you think the perfect day with would be like. You can make him known of how you feel without coming of needy but make it a little sexy

the_pcelica · Answer

I would talk to my boyfriend and I did.
Men need up front, strait answers from thair girlfriends. If something is bothering you, SAY IT!
They are not as women, who find milion and one side track, beating around the bush ways to tell thair boyfriends something. In the end......they still dont get it.

Just find a proper situation, sit down and tell him what you hope to get  from him, what you expect from him. 

First you need to distinguish between hoping and expecting. For exampe:

1) i hope you will love me for who i am.
2) i expect you to be faitful to me.
1) i hope you will wash those dishes after i make the diner
2) i expect you to never lie to me

see which cathegory this fits in and then talk to your boyfriend. It will help you and him to know what you are expecting from him and what you both need to work on.

Stay safe,

Greetings from Bosnia

? · Answer

Im not sure im sorry i have the same problem i havent seen my girlfriend in forever and im always wanting to talk to her and always waiting for her messages and calls shes always on my mind. If you guys are truly in life and you trust he willll understand and feel the same way u would. Speak your love to him if u do tell him exactly how u feel and what u need to say.

&quot;Cynical but Fun&quot; Nick · Answer

Text him saying, "I miss you and I wish you'd call me soon".

No, really. That's all you gotta say.

Anonymous · Answer

A simple Hey, I miss you works just fine :)

Mike · Answer

if you guys are going out I don't see why you missing him so much should be a big deal to him, shouldn't he want that?

Anonymous · Answer

is it a long distance relationship? how often do you talk to him?

Lamita · Answer

dontttt
never ever, he should , unless he asked u to

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