should i tell my boyfriend?

you SHOULD stop talking to the guy.

10 months vs. a week... its not really hard to figure out.

and plus you havent even met the guy.. just let him go...

And dont tell your boyfriend it will just bring up an argument.. better just to let it go and forget it.....

Quit texting the other guy. Simple.

You will end up falling in love or getting confused and someone is going to get hurt. Just drop it. You have a great guy in your life already? Why add something that could potentially ruin it?

Its okay to have friends and if your boyfriend doesnt care, then hey cool, but you have already been texting this guy for a week and your boyfriend has no idea...whats that sound like to you? How would your boyfriend feel?

Stop texting him otherwise you are gonna loose the guy you love.

It's something new, and you've been with your boyfriend for such a long time now that when a guy texts you with something nice or flattering it does feel good, but you cant forget what's important and that's the boyfriend that you already have that you love and who treats you right. I mean if your boyfriend was treating you wrong then i understand you texting someone else.

tell the guy who is texting you that you have a boyfriend and your sorry but you dont want to mess things up with your boyfriend but you had fun texting him and dont reply back to his texts. it will be hard but you should do it before your boyfriend finds out and everything is ruined.

If you love your boyfriend like you say you do i would stop texting that other guy cause you have to ask yourself how would you feel if he was doing that to you texting a female and telling her lots of sweet things.. and since you have never met the guy do not tell your boyfriend. some things are better left unsaid. No harm no foul. just cut the extra dude out of the equation and concentrate on reality not this fantasy texter :) hope this helps

Go with what your heart tells you, but honestly it's probably just a crush and it will pass in time. You might end up regretting cheating or even leaving your boyfriend for this other dude. I'd wait it out and see, not sure how old you are but if you are young there's no reason in having a little fun talking is talking. Don't cross the line into cheating though.

Tell this guy exactly what you just said. Your in a 10 month relationship and you love your boyfriend. So you want to be just friends. If he tries anything I suggest stop talking to the guy for a little bit.

But ive been dating my boyfriend for over 10 months now and i really do love him and i don't have those feelings for this guy.........tell him that, u knew what to say the whole time

I don't see the point of telling him that some other guy has feelings for you, particularly if you think he's harmless and that you can take him. All its going to do is create animosity between the two of them, and more anxiety for you.

But would you really be asking this question if you didn't have some feelings for your best friends' brother?

I don't think it's a big deal as long as you STOP COMMUNICATING WITH HIM. If not, you're a dirty little girl. that's all there is to it. if you know it's wrong, why would you do it? you have a BF! This is why girls and guys should not be close and talk unless they are single or dating each other. feelings get in the mix and everything goes to hell in a handbasket. true story. I've seen it happen over and over!

First of all, youve neva met this guy.

You dont know if hes real or not.

Guys can be VERY good sweet talkers!

If youve been with your boyfriend for so long and you love him,,

dont **** it up!

Dont make that mistake.

and dont let feelings get in the way of makin a good decision.