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I need a guys opinion, gals are welcome too :)?
I have been dating this guy for 7 weeks now, we dated also when we where 14, which was 13 years ago :) We get along great, have spent every weekend together for the last 7 weeks, and have agreed not to see other people... i know he cares a lot about me and i care alot about him, however he hasnt made it official, we are still in "dating" status and being a girl i want to take it to the 2cnd level! Is it too soon to ask for a bigger commitment, would that possibly scare him away or make him back track? I know he wont go anywhere, or ditch me lol but i dont want him to feel pressured however i really want to ditch this whole dating crap.. is 7 weeks long enough for me to expect something more?? Ive never really dated before, so im not sure.. i got into a relationship in high school and am just getting out of it about 5 months ago, so i guess im kinda rusty at all this! lol anyhow... tips on how to approach the subject would be nice too :) Thanks!
Lol no, not engaged hell im 27and never been engaged lol...that can wait :) I ment is it too early to ask for a commitment and call him my boyfriend... not just some guy im dating, that just sounds bad like someone can come snatch him away or myself..
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- tristan-adamsLv 41 decade agoFavorite Answer
Slow down there girl. 7 weeks and you want a bigger commitment then dating? Am I missing a step here, because 1. Meet 2. Date 3. Become exclusive 4. Engage 5. Marriage. Are you talking about getting engaged? Well, some people do things like that fast, but most people wait much longer then 7 weeks.
Obviously I don't know your situation, but if I was dating a girl for 7 weeks and told me she wanted more, it would sure make me think twice. But hey, maybe you two were meant for each other and you don't need any longer.
But maybe you are so used to being with someone that you don't feel right being alone.
Either way - don't rush into this. Enjoy dating him. Enjoy slowly making him a larger part of your life. Enjoy finding out all you can about this guy before you take the next step.
You two are already "exclusive". What else do you need right now? For goodness sakes, enjoy your life for a while and relax. He isn't going anywhere anyway.
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Oh, well you two are exclusive and you see each other quite often. I think anyone would call that being in a relationship. I'm not sure how "official" you need this to be, unless you just want him to so "ok we are bf+gf". You know you are already.
- ?Lv 44 years ago
in spite of the reality that, i can not for my area comprehend it, and that i would not elect a courting like that-i might get jealous.nevertheless we'd desire to continually comprehend that no longer each physique shares the comparable fee device. once you're a Swinger, then you definately might style of have the comparable mentality as a porn superstar, and a few married couples are Swingers and fortunately married. Many adult males have dalliances with different women human beings too, on an identical time as they're fortunately Married.How come its ok in those circumstances? and additionally isn't watching porn,and so on,style of like cheating?i assume its merely much less complicated for some human beings to chop up intercourse and love. I hear its plenty much less complicated for adult males to try this,besides ,than this is for women human beings.