How do U deal with a guy that feels offended when U ask him to use condoms?

Insist on the condom or find another guy. Remember, some of the ppl with HIV or herpes look "clean" or they might not even be aware that they are carrying the disease. There's an old joke from the 1980s: What is the difference between true love and herpes? Answer: Herpes is forever.

Bottom Line: You need to refuse to have sex with him unless he uses a condom. Tell him that you believe that he's clean (no S.T.Ds) but you don't want to get pregnant, because you're either two young to raise a child or don't want a child for another reason.

It is absolutely unacceptable to have sex without a condom if you don't want to get pregnant, or if you think there is a chance the person you're having sex with has an S.T.D.

You might want to consider using birth control, although if I was in your situation I would still insist on him using a condom.

Clean gentleman or not, he should respect your wishes. Don't have sex with him. I make my husband put on a condom because I don't want any more kids. He's planning on having a vasectomy soon (his choice not mine..says it is less dangerous)

This guy is such a selfish, jerk, pig, dog..... RUN AWAY as fast as you can....block his calls, block his messages....after he has tried to pull this stunt on you, if he put his entire body in a condom, you are a danged fool/dumba** if you ever let him within 10 feet of you, much less take him back/consider having sex with him...

WHAT A LOSER!!!

Thats stupid did he pay attention in health class. Having sex leads to having a child so if he doesn't want to wear a condom don't do it. You should tell him that you have a motto " Wrap it before you tap it"

simple, you dont deal with it. just because he says hes clean doesnt mean anything except that he is selfish. and correction on his part, only smart people use condoms. this guy obviously is not very smart. its your body, if he wants you then he will respect you.

tell him as much as you like him that you dont want to have a child right now and that it has nothing to do with him. and if you have tried that and it doesnt work simply dont have sex with him....within 1-2 weeks he will be begging for it and he will be so desperate he wont care at which point you can from then on use the " it didnt bother you last time".

well i dont get physical until we go get tested together or i have a condom.. if ur guy is getting offended over that just tell him straight up better to be safe then sorry right?

I cant wear condoms because i have an 18 inch calck. Try finding a condom that big

Tell him to respect your wishes or forget it. Having save sex is a normal, important and smart thing to do. Lots of people prefer not to but thats completely unsafe.