im not sure wat to do about this guy....10 pts!!!!?

I think you should dump him. Who doesn't 'believe' in dating? Thats a bunch of bull. If the only time you get to talk to him is over the phone or email, and you guys live nearby, (as in not a long-distance relationship) he's probably hiding you. Maybe he has another girl. Its not fair to keep yourself miserable and to not confront him because you're afraid of him freaking out. I say confront him and if he does, he's no good because he's just thinking about himself and you dont want someone like that. Thats when you let him go. There are plenty of other fish in the sea. Yes, I know, its cliche but its true. If he understands you and makes an effort to make you feel better, give it another chance and see where it goes from there.

Hope I helped... : )

well actually a lot of people have a problem with dating because they don't want to get hurt. This is probably why the guy doesn't want to date. Don't force him into dating, and actually, you shouldn't care about it that much, dating is just a title, nothing very important. If you both like each other that's great! Just keep talking to him like normal and if you do see him in person, talk to him about what he sees you two as but let him know that you don't care about dating and that you'll like him the same either way. I know someone that has had a problem with dating guys because they just seem too pushy to be in a relationship and she's not like that so she ended up meeting this guy who didn't want to date because of a past relationship that didn't turn out too well. They're perfectly happy together because they're not forcing anything onto each other but it's basically like they're dating, they just wouldn't say they are. Just let this guy know how you feel but don't get pushy with the relationship thing. hope that helps!!

Well Shay just talk to him about hanging out more,without the pressure of being in a relationship.Just as friends,that's how most good relationships start anyway.

Well you should always be careful of pervs and nasty people online, sometimes it works out and the guy is great, and sometimes it ends up nasty... Ask for a pic, if he refuses then email him and chat for a while and eventually he may give you a pic, BUT DO NOT GIVE OUT YOUR INFORMATION such as home phone, address, etc. all the more easier for them to kidnap you if they are a freak. some pics CAN be disieving (sorry cant spell today) but atleast try.

if he really likes you he'll ask you out, unless there's cultural /religious impediments. Maybe there's someone else in his life. I think you should move on. But if u wan to give it another try, u could ask him out and find out if there;s another girl, and get answers for ur doubts. If he doens;t open up then he's not open for a relationship with u.

You probably dont want to hear this, but he most likely just doesn't want to go out with you. If you cant talk with him about your relationship then, I'd say its time to move on.

thats not really a good thing you should leave him be and just be friends if he does not want to go out then it is not going to be a good relationship even if you get him to go out with you

You want to be happy. In which situation would you be happier?

1) The status quo

2) Not talking to him at all.

If the answer is 1 you'll have to accept that, because putting his feet to the fire means you'll have to be willing to accept number 2.

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um do you know why he doesnt believe in going out ? that would help me understand more. bt since i dont really know i think you should let him know that you really like him and that you would like to spend more time with him .

Shay--be careful - - it sounds like this guy is hiding "things"