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Opinion Poll: Your opinion would be appreciated?
I was with my girlfriend Emma the other night and she told me she wanted to get married. I was shocked – stunned --- petrified. I had made it quite clear to her at the outset never to mention the “M” word. I intend staying a bachelor forever.
Later in the evening, after becoming stressed by the mere thought of marriage, I was greatly relieved when Emma clarified that it was s some other guy that she wanted to get married to. You can imagine my relief when she said this. But she then went on to say that she wanted to carry on seeing me after the wedding and I’m not sure I can go through with this. I do have some moral standards and I’m not quite sure that this arrangement would be appropriate. So, I thought an opinion poll on here might give me some insight.
OPINION POLL:
Do you think my other girlfriend (Ricky) would mind if I carried on seeing Emma after she got married?
meneater: The "spider shock" one is still running as far as I know ... Ricky is a 'reserve' g/f that I have :-)
13 Answers
- Anonymous5 years ago
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- tiffany.xLv 41 decade ago
Well clearly your 'moral standards' aren't too high if you have two girlfriends, but that aside if Ricky is aware of Emma you should just ask her! But your initial instinct is probably right, a marriage will be a comittment for Emma and it's probably not the best of ideas for her to continue seeing you. Good luck?
- 1 decade ago
this a joke? hehehe.
If not, okay i will try to help. Well you shouldn't be with someone who does not want the same things as you hun.
You need to let her go , and you're right this arrangement is not appropiate!
Just read your last bit.. HAHAHAHA. :P
Well, your other girlfriend didn't mind that you were seeing Emma..... So she wouldn't mind if you carried on anyway.
Lmao.
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
oh i see ...
so she got over the spider shock from the other day or was that another g/f of yours..hehe
in any case the only time i would start worrying about this new arrangment if she wanted the new husband to be involved in some kinda sex games and threesomes ...
other than that ... good to go ... or shall i say come ...
lmao
- 1 decade ago
lol why not? but then again she might be into the whole guy-girl-guy three somes O.o stick with Ricky at least you'll have more time with her, but you should probably go catch the spider shock one if she's still running LOL
- Bébé Doux ツLv 61 decade ago
Not sure about Ricky, but I'm sure Emma's husband wouldn't hesitate to punch you if you carry on seeing his wife. lol
- anav72Lv 61 decade ago
Maybe you should ask her and report back to us with her thoughts on the matter!!!
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Ha ha....you are classic Scoundy.