Suprising that a top contributor would have problems in his area but i do.?

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OK, so yeah, my ex, who i still like asked what i would do if she hauled off and kissed me out of the blue... multiple reasons why this blows me over, though mainly because it is a move i give as advice for those who want that person who has no clue they exist to know how they feel. so yeah, to sum up she wants to take my advice and use it on me... and i have no clue how to go about it, especially since she has a girlfriend (yes she is BI, get over it i am too after all) and this Girlfriend is very what's the word... stingy, with her partners, plus shes a close Friend of mine. so any ideas as to what to do? Just thought i'd ask.

Update:

As for the type of kiss... the usual advice is to walk up regardless of everything and everyone else and plant one right on their lips. so yeah....

Superion · Accepted Answer

I think that, before you answer that question, you need to ask your ex what the status of her relationship with your close friend is (if your ex wonders about why you are asking, let her know the truth:  that you still have feelings for her, but you're also a bit concerned about your friend).  

Depending on your ex's answer - particularly if she admits her relationship with your friend is fine, but she just wants to be with you again - you may find yourself in murky waters.  By your own admission, you still have feelings for your ex...her "hauling off and kissing you" is just going to add fuel to that fire, with strong ramifications for your ex's relationship with your friend.  Even if your ex's current romance with your friend is on the rocks, she'll now be your close friend's ex...and you dating her could still be a touchy issue.

You may have to weigh the possibility of damaging (or destroying!) your relationship with your friend against the chances of successfully rekindling your romance with your ex.

I wish all of you the best of love and luck.

[RoC]SkieS · Answer

It is possible that she still likes you, but she may not. It all depends upon the context of the kiss. For instance, a playful kiss on the cheek means nothing, but it varies upon the situation that the kiss takes place. Just be careful of her girlfriend, she might be a bit of a loon.

Anonymous · Answer

id tell her that i was flattered but i wont be the cause for issues in the relationship she has. if she has those feelings for you then she isn't that committed to her partner. let her deal with these issues before you make a move with this, you don't wont to end up with that baggage.

Pinkgirl · Answer

It is sometimes easier to help others than it is to help ourselves. Your girlfriend needs to express her desires to HER girlfriend. Just like when she is with you, she tells you want she needs and what she wants, she should do the same with her.

Nelle · Answer

First tell her how you feel about the kiss
Since she's your friend you should have no
problems asking her that

Anonymous · Answer

go for it, but be a bit stingy yourself ;-)

ClarKent6979 · Answer

TWO WORDS THREE WAY!!! hahaha sorry i had to just kiddin.

I&#39;m Always Right · Answer

what to do? scream like a girl, and run away from her.

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