How to take a revenge from the guy who joked with you?!?

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this guy n me, we have known each other for past 3 years now, but only online. we're like best friends, best pen pals... and we would share stuff about our life and whatever.
we had a big fight, which resulted in - we both didn'tt talk for an year, until he apologized
this summer, he asked me out. i took my time and said ''yes'' to him. for one month, it went on. we were dating each other. but in between i felt as though he's ignoring me for he would be busy playing games and watching movies when ever i would call him. so even i stopped calling him. a week later of not being able to talk to him, he ended this relationship. a day later he is apologizing. why-?
because - he says he was just joking when he said he loves me. he was just playing with me. he assumed i would never say yes.

the problem is, he was never serious, hence is moved on. i got serious, i 'm not able to move on.
he always had this ''joke'' attitude,but in this case, it was horrible, how can someone joke like this? play with feelings??
for further information, we are still on talking terms... however, i'm trying my level best to ignore him.
i have been ignoring him for past 10 days, but ignoring ain't working for he hasn't messaged or called me... or whenever he sees me online, he wont say a ''hi''... i think he's ignoring me back...
i want to take revenge. i so want to give back so hard that he forgets to joke, forever.

any suggestions, of what i could do?

please help, thanks! :)

Don S · Accepted Answer

You are simply a fool!  Move on because this will go nowhere and simply hurt you, not him.

Anonymous · Answer

First of all. He was cruel and that was just completely wrong of him to do. Second, you shouldn't put up with stuff like that. If he's willing to hurt your feelings that bad then he's not worth it. If it were me I'd message him saying that you no longer want to talk to them and why. If you want to give him a chance then leave it like that for a little while, but if he doesn't take the bait he's STILL definitely not worth it. Try to forget about him and let your heart heal. You'll find someone better.

Anonymous · Answer

such a cheap person who dosent know the meaning of love is not worth taking even revenge....let life teach him by its own way and you wait for your prince charming....i know its not easy to forget the one u loved so much but still now u know that he was a fraud....and such people have to pay one day or the other....u dont need to waste ur time and emotions for him!!

cantgetright80 · Answer

Find a guy in the real world and leave the internet dating alone .

Play · Answer

You take a key and dig it into his car and get a bat and smash the windshield. Hurting a man's car is the worst thing you can do to the guy...Well 2nd worst thing you can do.

Anonymous · Answer

Don't waste your time with this chump, he's not even worth getting revenge on.  Ignore him completely.

Tony M · Answer

He is probably going out with another girl and doing the same thing, find out who she is and tell her what he did to you.

ANdy S · Answer

best revenge would be to do whats hardest..delete him from everything..eventually you will move on as long as you work at it.

The Aardvark · Answer

Don't do revenge. It bites you in the butt. Karma,

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How to take a revenge from the guy who joked with you?!?

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