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Annoying guy keeps bothering me? How to let him down nicely?

There was this guy I met when I went to this camp place who is 16 and I'm 14. He kept flirting with me hard core then like held me (wtf?) and it was awkward because I don't like him. Only as a friend but I guess that's not enough for him. It's irritating.

So we live like....6-7 hours away and he always says "i miss you" and "hey sexy" or something stupid like that. I feel bad but I can't stand it because I like someone else a LOT who lives in MY city. I'm so sick of him bothering me, he calls or texts and is so clingy!!!

So yeah what should I say to him or should I just tell him off? I don't want to do that unless i have to. Thanks everyone!

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Next time he says something like "hey sexy" say "I'm sorry, but can you not say things like that anymore? it makes me kinda uncomfortable." It's honest, to the point, but not mean.

    You can also give him a bit of a cold shoulder. Or talk about the guy you do have a crush on. See if he takes the hint. If he doesn't, and he keeps pushing things, just be blunt and tell him that you're sorry, but you don't feel that way about him.

  • 1 decade ago

    ha how did he even get your number in the first place then? It sounds like you may have led him on, buuuuut that doesn't matter...if you want to let him down nicely then tell him he's like a brother to you and talk to him up front.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Tell him that you've got a boyfriend who gets jealous easily.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    just dont answer his calls or respond to his texts,,,thats what i would do,,,,,but if you cant do that, just give boring 1 word replies to his texts hell get the messege

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  • 1 decade ago

    put him down nicely, say like maybe sometime later we could try datin (but like dont) lol

  • aim91
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    say you have a boyfriend and that you don't want problems with him and that you are sorry that's all he will back off. '

    GOOD LUCK WITH EVERYTHING

    Source(s): someone used to do this to me too dont worry youll be fine
  • 1 decade ago

    No such thing.

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