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Tips on how to get asked on dates.?

i haven't been on a date in a while and i just kinda wanna go on a bunch f dates with lots of different guys. i don't sleep with people so you can keep all perverted comments to yourself. but i need some tips on how to "put my self out there" i always go out with friends to hang out in big groups and stuff but what can i do to get guys to ask for my number and stuff while im at these outings?

Update:

oh right, i forgot to mention thwt i dont really know how to flirt that well.

Update 2:

in the groups i go with the guy girl ratio is pretty even. so its not like its me and a buch of girls. (too much competion lol)

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Be the kind of person you want to date. If you like artistic people and enjoy that, join an art club, spend time with art.....your passions or likes will compliment each other as you meet others who like the same things you do and sooner or later, probably sooner, someone will want to spend some time with you on the topic you enjoy as well....

    I hated the dating scene, I was more of a "doing" than a "dating" person. Find a hobby, that's my advice, and go enjoy it to where you can invite others to share it with you. Be the person you want to meet.

    The thing that a lot of people find really attractive is someone who enjoys and loves life. People are drawn to that. So by finding your hobby, something you enjoy, that brings out your shine, and people are drawn to that. Go find a love of life first, and then they will come.....

    Been there...done that....it works....for guys and girls....

    I reccommend John Bytheway's "What I wish I'd known when I was single" - very good.

  • Pyros7
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    It's the 21st century. If you're interested in someone ask him out. Guys are dumb, we don't always pick up on subtle little clues.

    I knew a great girl once, we always bantered back and forth and had fun hanging out with friends, but I never seriously thought she was interested in going out until one night she just said "so, when are we going to get together for dinner or something?"

    You don't have to be that blunt, but why not? It worked just fine.

  • 1 decade ago

    1-if you are over 18, match.com, thats how i met my boyfriend! My mom is on chemistry.com which is somehow related to match also.

    2-Do the asking yourself! Its the 21st century! My fave way to do it if you are nervous is to slip the guy your name and number on a piece of paper.

    3-Put work into your appearance. Put your hair up like a 40's pin-up girl-there are tutorials on youtube on how to do it.

  • 1 decade ago

    Very simple.

    Be highly sociable. Attend events, parties.

    Guys will eventually come up to you if you have a gravitational character.

    Focus on improving yourself and the requests will son follow up.

    Source(s): Powerful Cutting Edge Dating Tips For Men http://www.absolutedatingtips.com/
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  • 1 decade ago

    If you insist on going out in a group you are going to keep scaring them away. You'll have to start approaching guys who show interest cuz they are obviously to scared to come up to you. That or go out with only one person...

  • 1 decade ago

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  • 1 decade ago

    Ask someone to go on a date. Be active, rather than passive ;)

  • 1 decade ago

    Be urself o.o

  • 1 decade ago

    flirt, lol simple as that

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Look pretty.

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