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Am I going about things the wrong way?

there's this really nice, funny, cool, and, erm, beautiful guy in my spanish class. he sits behind me and we talk a lot about random stuff like music and what we did yesterday and other things like that. i've really started to like him, but i have no idea how to get him to like me. at the moment, i'm focusing on our friendship, but i don't know if this is the wrong way to get him to like me. i also don't know for sure if he has a girlfriend or not, but if he does, i'd probably just give up trying to make him like me. it would be pointless, of course.

also, i don't know if i should hint around to him that i like him or keep quiet about it. if i hinted around, he might be creeped out or something and not like me at all (if he already does, which i strongly doubt), but if i kept quiet about it and he did like me (which, again, i strongly doubt), he would never know i did too and we wouldn't be together and blahblahblah.

any help/advice with this, would be greatly appreciated :)

also, you get full credit/points/whatever if you can name what song i referenced in the question and the band who made it ;)

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Try to get him to talk about his girlfriend, say something like "so I bet you have a cute girlfriend?" idk, but you get the idea...

    without flat out asking him, thats the only way, other than following him after class to see if he meets up with any girls. chances are if he has a girlfriend, he will visit her at some point during the day in between classes.

  • 1 decade ago

    you should really just tell him how you feel...guys don't like it when girls mess with their heads all the time

    Source(s): me
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