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My best friend changed over summer break and i don't like it, what should i do?
Its our freshman year and one of my best friends turned emo and i don't like it at all! i know probably sound really shallow and all but im not its just shes so different she has changed so much in 10 weeks like now shes completely obsessed with my chemical romance, mikey way, and criss angel and she dresses in all black and red and wears a brace knuckles necklace to school and she puts on lots of red and black eye make up. it scares me every time i see her and at lunch she sinks down low in her chair and listens to mcr on her ipod on full blast and won't talk to anyone, maybe im just over reacting but i don't like being seen with her its kind of embarrassing because i'm like completely different i wear bright cheerful colors with a ribbon in my hair and i talk to everyone no matter who they are. Okay my question is what should i do? i have lots of other friends that i can hang out with but im her only friend so i don't want her to feel lonely but what would you do or do you have any advice?
5 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Well first of all, you have to understand that people change. Talk to her and ask her what brought this change on, and ask to see her wrists. If there are cuts then she could be depressed, and if there aren't any then she might just be trying to fit in. If you don't want to be friends with her just because she's emo, then, no offense, but your not a very good friend, because people change. Just talk to her and ask whats going on, and look at her wrists. Most likely this is just a phase and she'll snap out of it eventually, until then you'll just have to put up with her. but make sure you check her wrists, something could be going on in her life that's making her depressed, good luck
- 1 decade ago
I say continue to hang out with her, find out why she changed like this and maybe try to understand her. My friend went through the same change and is emo, but him and I get along still.
- 1 decade ago
Look just picture her as she was and try and talk to her I cut myself friends freaked out then they got over it in a little bit just talk to her she is probibly really depressed and needs to talk to some one she can trust if you're her best friend then I bet she can talk to you and go some where private all you need to do is talk if she doesn't let it out it will get worse a lot worse trust me it happens to me so even if she says no make her talk!!! I allmost killed myself but I started talking to friends a out it and stuff and I felt 10000000 tomes better
Source(s): I cut myself and all of my friends went through this - 1 decade ago
Ah. Deja vu. Just talk to her!
Tell her how you feel, that you know this isn't her
(JUST STFU! YOU DON'T KNOW ME! THIS IS ME. )
Yea, I've been there. Just keep trying to talk to her, and get your other closest friends to talk to her about it to. It'll probably take a LONG while for her to effing get over herself, but keep telling her that she needs to stop being fake, stop trying to impress people, and be her effing self. It might break through to her eventually.
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
Maybe you could ask her what happened over the summer to bring over this change?