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Im a sensitive guy and im good looking & i still cant find a girl, is it cuz gurls dnt like sensitive?

Hi, My Name is Kyle and im 17 about to graduate this year... i know its long but plzz read and give me adive/opinions anything that could help me, make me feel better.. i been really depress off and on :( thank you...

I know im young but i been havin problems finding a gurl/gf that will like me for me i been single sence march. It seems like the young gurls are only really into the macho tough loud bad *** guys and im the SENSITIVE QUIET NICE LOVEING CAREING GUY thats nice to everybody and that likes to express my feelings to my partner when theres something wrong or when im down & that likes to listens to my partner feelings and try to make her feel better by listening to her n letting her know im there for her n givin a big hug with a big kiss & i would buy her roses with a note on it sayin "i love you im here for you! be happy so i can be happy" or im the guy that u see bust out a tear cuz im stressed out or cuz the realionship is going bad or cuz somebody died n i would cry in front of everybody.....

But dont think i get too over senestive and soft, i mean i love playing/watching all sports and going out clubbin/partying n havein a wild side of me to also n i know its not cuz of my looks, cuz i know im good lookin and had compliments about my look and style of dress so i have confidence in that... BUT THE LAST 4 GURLS I DATED TOOK ADVANTAGE OF ME FROM HOW CAREING LOVEING I AM AND LEFT ME FOR MACHO BADASS TOUGH GUYS AND SENCE MARCH WHEN I BECAME SINGLE IT DOESNT SEEM LIKE GURLS NOTICE OR LIKE ME CUZ IM REALLY NICE IDK AND I BEEN FEELIN LONELY N DEPRESSS N THINKIN I WILL NEVER FIND A GURL THAT WILL LOVE ME FOR ME... SO DO YOU THINK MOST YOUNG HIGHSCHOOL/COLLEGE GURLS NOT WANTING TO BE WITH ME CUZ THERE MOSTLY INTO THE MACHO BADASS TYPE GUYS INSTEAD OF THE SENSTIVE NICE GUYS?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    oohh ur cute lol. but ya i understand wut u mean. girlz like tough guyz cuz they can protect em n they feel safe!! itz juss sumthin that naturally popz into a girlz head!! but im into mor of the sweet n senstive guys. i say that cuz they care mor and actully care bout thingz u have 2 say. unlike tough guyz they dnt give a shyt bout anythin a girl has 2 say. but u no itz kinda the same thing how a guy lykz a sexy girl wit a nice body!! u no wut i mean lyk an attraction sumthin that juss comez in there mind!

  • 1 decade ago

    Go watch the movie Bedazzled with Brendan Fraser and Elizabeth Hurley. Watch the scene where he's the red-headed freckled guy on the beach and watch how he is with the girl. That's BAD sensitive..that's overboard and NO girl wants that. Being sensitive a little bit is good. I'm sensitive..i'm caring. But you just have to know what the limit is. When it's "too much". No matter what though man...YOU..NEED..CONFIDENCE. I'm not talking about being a cocky full-of-yourself asshole. When you go out with girls, know what you want, where you want to go, and what you want to do. If you want to hold her hand, hold her hand...be a little daring. You'll be fine. Good luck.

  • 1 decade ago

    Heres the dealio. Being nice and caring and sweet is all great stuff and you shouldnt be ashamed of that. BUT, theres a point where it goes too far. if your always trying to be nice to a girl and always doing stuff for her they will take advantage of you (as you know) because its no challange to them. girls want a guy who is confident and maybe a little cocky but who can also be nice as well. Girls go for the macho guys but quickly become heart broken because well theyre usually douchbags! Just read into some stuff on ask.men.com about dating and what women want. im sure your just about there you just need a little extra help. good luck!

  • 1 decade ago

    Of course most girls will fall for the rough necks / thugs < what my community says> but that all changes once they get taken advantaged of, used, treated poorly, etc. But that is overrated, a nice guy is hard to find. Maybe you should mingle with the right people, if you do that .. then you wont be single for long : )

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    For me,i hate guys who are quiet and shy with no sense of humor.If that appeals to you,you should probably try and loose up a litttle.Crack some jokes,laugh at jokes,try to kind of attract attention (not by doing silly stuffs) from the girls.If they smile at you,it means it's success,because mostly it's the kind of sense of humor that make girls like guys,because they are pretty sure those guys can make them cheer up even if they're down so it kind of gives them a sense of security that somebody will make them happy.

  • 1 decade ago

    What just 6 months? listen there are some girls out there who ADORE guys like you ^_^! you gotta have faith man. Come on... just wait a little bit don't go jumping from girl to girl just because they say they like you! wait and see if you feel the same way. Don't worry im positive that youll be fine ^-^

    Oh p.s.don't try to be someone ur not, girls hate that!

  • Annie
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Ok, no offense here, but you dress like a gangsta. And all of the girls I know would automatically say "player" And girls don't want a player. So my guess is that is how they are seeing you. You sound like a sweet guy, and it's too bad girls don't see that. Good luck though hope I helped. And, you will find that perfect girl.

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    1 decade ago

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  • 1 decade ago

    its not dat we dont like a guy's sensitivity. its just when we're in a relationship we'd like to feel like we're dating a GUY, GUy and not a dude thats more sensitive than we are.And if we know we can take advantage of you we will cause no matter what you'll always b there. but tihng is you gotta put you foot down dont b so nice say no deny us i tihnk we like it more wen we cant get our way so den we'll have to work harder to get wat we want from you. so stop spoon feedin your girlfriends like ur there mother and b independent.

    girls like a guy dats nice but also a guy thats a bad *** too. it more of a balancing act. you got to find your mean side and then balance it out w/ the nice one.

    Source(s): Ive dated dat sensitive,nice guy that gave me w.e i wanted. BUt he listened too much to me and i got sick of the overly nice stuff and sweetness. Its just me but i mean dont give the girl your everything save some of it, make it a mystery. Take it from me ive dated a guy like you. although you look better. lol
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Well it seems your into those kinda girls who want a bad!@# guy. Its not that your sensitive, its that you think your not meant to be with the girl. You need to look for a sensitive girl. Someone like you.

    BTW: Its not your looks. All guys have the tendency to think that they don't look good enough. Its whats inside of you.

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