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GUYS HELP!!! 10 pts. Is this guy....?

i need to know if this guy is playing me or not.

we met online, then met in person 3 times in total. hes very nice and im going through a hard time and he is very supportive. he treats me like a lady and is very kind. he calls me and texts me. But the thing is he sent me a pretty weird text last night saying how he misses having a girlfriend...so then i asked him "what type of gf are you looking for" and replied "Not really looking women suck", then i asked him if i sucked and he said "No you dont, not in the bad way anyway"

then i said "only if its worth my time" then i fell asleep and he did too and he texted me this morning on a non related topic. i havent yet..

i would like to know why he said the things he said. Is he interested? whats his point?

i need to start playing hard to get. any tips?

i just ended another relationship in june so for some reason im not use to this stuff. like game playing argh.

please help 10 pts

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    I think that he is interested because why else would he want to bring up the subject of relationships. He has to like you. Maybe he thinks that you don't like him the same way. You should ask him (if you like him) if there is ever a chance that you to might get together. He could also just be trying to be a good friend, and doesn't want to make it weird between you two. But you should ask him...if he says no and you wanted a relationship then maybe you should just let him go.

    Source(s): Lindsy Wierschke
  • Adam
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Its hard to say for sure, because his behavior is odd, but it seems as if he wants to ask you out but is unsure of how you'd respond. Clearly, he was fishing for an answer when he said he "really missed having a girlfriend." He was hoping for a solid response from you like, "I could be your girlfriend." Obviously, the guy has insecurities if he's going to take that approach. You can keep hanging out with this guy and see where it goes, but if you want to be his girlfriend, sounds like you'll have to boost his confidence a bit.

  • 1 decade ago

    Nope, I think he's playing you.. Its his way of saying "Hey I want you to act as my girlfriend, but I dont want anyone to know and I don't want to be tied down"..

    Basically friends with benefits.. Or sometimes guys are just looking to have a friend of the opposite sex that they can turn to emotionally.. But this can obviously take a toll on you if you were to develop feelings for him.. Its a complicated guy thing.. Hate to **** block but, he's not interested in publicly going out with you..

  • 1 decade ago

    How involved are you guys sexually? Don't let him use you like that, it kind of sounds like what he wants. Then again, my bf now told me when we met he could never see us as anything more than friends, but things just fell into place.

    Don't respond to his texts right away, but don't leave him hanging for hours either. He needs to know you are there if he needs you, yet you aren't too clingy.

    Source(s): experience.
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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    To me, it sounds like he just left a relationship and is rebounding with you.

    The whole you don't suck in a bad way could be a reference to sex, and he seems depressed, but only at night, when he is alone.

  • annely
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    Player.

  • 1 decade ago

    a lot of guys say "i hate women love sucks" just so the girl will come to them and they can say that the girl is special to them. its a bunch of crap. trust me i have used it before act vulnerable most girls give in and it makes them emotional and that will make it easy for a guy to get in good and control them. he probably isnt palying youu he is probably one of those guys that wants a girlfriend so bad he doesnt care, in any chance he doesnt love you and i know if you ask him he will say he does. do it text him and say "do you love me? :)" make sure to add teh happy face it makes it seem liek you want him to say yes which will make him open to it. he is silly just let him try to get you for another 2 months

  • 1 decade ago

    Help just try and talk through with him personally about your personally fellings to this.

    If you find it hard discuss bit by bit will help throught problems.

  • 1 decade ago

    He sounds like a keeper

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    He sounds gorgeous! Gorgeous men are keepers :)

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