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GUYS HELP!!! 10 pts. Is this guy....?
i need to know if this guy is playing me or not.
we met online, then met in person 3 times in total. hes very nice and im going through a hard time and he is very supportive. he treats me like a lady and is very kind. he calls me and texts me. But the thing is he sent me a pretty weird text last night saying how he misses having a girlfriend...so then i asked him "what type of gf are you looking for" and replied "Not really looking women suck", then i asked him if i sucked and he said "No you dont, not in the bad way anyway"
then i said "only if its worth my time" then i fell asleep and he did too and he texted me this morning on a non related topic. i haven't answered yet..
i would like to know why he said the things he said. Is he interested? whats his point?
i need to start playing hard to get. any tips?
i just ended another relationship in june so for some reason im not use to this stuff. like game playing argh.
-->were both in our 20's, and he will be moving into an apartment not to far from me and has already told me about future plans to hang out and stuff.
please help 10 pts
9 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
well at first, you should ask him what you are together, friends or are you going to become a girlfriend. why does he think women suck? this guy is giving you mixed messages, he wants to hang with you but when you asked about him looking for a gf he was not very nice about women
ask him straight out, where are you going in this friendship or more
- 1 decade ago
He was Probably testing you to see if you bothered if he said that and you are so now he knows that you are interested in him. & He obviously really likes you with the texting and the calling. Just keep on doing what you doing :) good luck xxxx
- 1 decade ago
He could be testing you... I know I do it sometimes to kinda throw them off and see how they reply.... Ya know to see if they like me or if Im wasting my time. Most guys dont just text a girl for nothing it is one of two things, he likes her or just wants to get some. And if you havent given him any then he most likely likes you! Guys dont waste their time like girls tend to sometimes! Hope this helps!
- 1 decade ago
I wouldn't read into it too much if I were you. It sounds like you had some good time together that should outweigh one weird text message.
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- 1 decade ago
Sounds like he was drunk texting. You could try a little innocent flirting / innuendo texting and see how he responds before commiting yourself to a possible failed relationship.
Good luck!
- Anonymous1 decade ago
hard to get does not work!
i had a similar problem with a girl but i didnt no if i liked her and eventually she moved on as i think she used to like me but thought nothing was going to happen. if u really want to be his gf, ask him. it wont affect ur friendship if ur gd freinds ........... and if ur still scared lol, get him drunk and ask him so he dnt remember it (but be prepared for the worst with that terrible plan)
good luck :) - tell us how it goes!
- 1 decade ago
well online dating is scary. but just be careful. it sounds like he likes you but is being mysterious. and this is a way to have you thinking about him all day. but give him some chances because it sounds like hes not playing games. but always be careful
Source(s): hope i could help(: - 1 decade ago
Maybe he was drunk. Or that he was hinting that he wants to have a relationship with you.
