I just don't get it---please advise---anyone's advice is more than welcome---thank you.?

Without knowing any details (I don't want to know details) it could be as simple as her feeling that she is merely reacting to some action of yours. That's the hardest thing in any relationship. What you see as the original action that set something in motion, she may see as a reaction to something you did that set something in motion. Then you both get caught up in a cycle of blaming and reacting and trying to make the other one see how it is their fault. Is either of you completely innocent or have your actions/reactions helped to perpetuate the situation? Accepting that there is room for improvement for both of you will help. Also, ask yourself this, is it more important that you resolve the problem or that she accept the blame. Most often you will not find a resolution when only one of you takes responsibility for your actions.

I think it's YOU who needs to accept responsibility for your actions. YOU have the same problems over and over but with different women. Seeing a pattern here...... YOU are the common denominator here. Being one of your ex's, I know this first hand. Grow up and be a man of once. Support yourself and stop moving in with whatever woman you can get to fall for your line of crap. Get some help. A sign of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.

Okay...um...your question is what? Women refuse to accept responsibility for what? What's with all the quotation marks? I think you need to learn to communicate a little better, perhaps that will clear up what you don't get.

So you had an argument and the woman is mad about how you reacted? Does that have something to do with your question? It's not very clear...

Maybe you should be a little more specific and your lady would be able to understand you better.

Man--Don't understand this crap and why you have to rant on Y!A--Grow some balls and tell this to who you are mad at.--You have exhausted my patience with this question.

I am "unaware" of what your question is. You might want to try again.

whats the question

what are you talking about we can not advise u if we dont know what ur talking about

Y!A Fail.