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would this work out ?(only really mature guys and girls) sex question?

i know this guy and he calls and text me almost everyday and we talk for hours we have great connection.( we both are not talking on the phone for hours type of person). we talk about everything and anything. he is not a virgin and is a very perverted person (sadly).i am a virgin ( saving myself for marriage ) i talk about sex sometime. when he talk about sex i feel really uncomfortable. a couple of days ago i was talking to him and i told him a story and then all of a sudden he tells me that he first use to think that my innocents was cute now it is just too much or not cute anymore. i talk about sex but not as much as he does. and then he told me that i kill all/any of us going out. so i about after about 1:30 hours. we hang up cuz he didn't want to talk and neither was i. i feel really bad what should i do ? how can i be more open ? should i even be more open ? please read and give me a lot of advice

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we normally talk for more then 2;30 hours. should i give him a couple of days and then text him ? sorry for the bad grammar

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Tough question. I think the answer is Yes and No.

    Yes, you should be more open - or at least more open to the possibility that talking about sex with someone other than him will not make you uncomfortable.

    No, you shouldn't be more open to him. Anyone who tries to force sex on you as a condition of the relationship - and I count talking about sex as sex in this context - is not cool.

    What he says makes you uncomfortable. He doesn't seem to care about that. In fact, he attacks you for being who you are - i.e. for not being like him. What's up with that? Would you stay friends with some girl who insulted you for how you liked to do your hair? Of course not. Why would this be any different?

    There are a lot of guys out there. You need to stand up to this one and put him in his place. He is pressuring you and that's not cool. Either he respects your boundaries like a friend or he's gone.

  • 1 decade ago

    Sweetie if he makes you uncomfortable then you don't need to talk to him. I was just going after you because you were a challenge. I wants sex. I have been in this place. I was saving myself for marriage and I would have a boyfriend that would talk about sex all the time and then it went to putting his hands on me all the time and trying to get me to have sex with him and it would not matter how much I said no. There are guys out there that can put on this front. They can talk to you for hours and tell you all the amazing things you want to hear. Trust me I have been through this a couple of times. If there is ever a time that you feel uncomfortable the thats when you need to step back and take a closer look. They guy I am with now is amazing and he has never ever made me feel uncomfortable. He would not talk about sex until I was comfortable and if we do talk about it. He always tells me to tell him if I ever feel uncomfortable. I know you don't want to believe that this guy is not being truth full but take it from a girl thats been there. You would not believe the lies and the stories that guys come up with sometimes and you will never know it until they are walking out that door.

    Source(s): experiance
  • Anonymous
    4 years ago

    the polldoesn't make experience except the adult adult males have been having intercourse with human beings over the grade of 12 which i might think of is a marginally small share. and that i might characteristic it to in trouble-free terms what adult adult males transforming into up are taught to be like. considering that its a "in many situations happening actuality" then it actual could be authentic. in the event that they're taught this to be authentic, they're going to act consequently. i'm particular the adulthood and sexpersistent is an identical in the two sexes however the society adjustments the interest slightly.

  • 1 decade ago

    uh...no dont call him.if he gets mad because you wont talk dirty back to him then hes not worth your time.if it makes you uncomfortable then say so and stick to it

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