what does he want from me ? i am confused. please girls and really mature guys only?

even if you have a good connection, he sounds like he wants to get into your pants, he kind of sounds like a weirdo. I talked to a guy my own age online almost all day long every day for a summer and I realized in the end, that I only talked to him because when I sent him pictures of me he said I was beautiful and I liked hearing that. He said lots of weird things though … he didn't sound like he had his head on his shoulders at all, and he kept talking about how he'd like to sit on a beach with me. I just realized that he was just too odd and weird and creepy … maybe you should stop talking to this guy and stay away. Make a cooler guy friend who doesn't act like you mentioned. I did and it worked out fine. Much happier. Good Luck

He sounds like a flake. Its hard to say what he wants, because I doubt he even knows himself. If 90% of the contact is phone and text, well its not really much anyway. But really if he stated theres no chance of a relationship......well then you know one thing he doesnt want. Move on

hes not telling you how he really feels. from what you have said so far, hes not wanting to come out and bring all his feelings on the table, and may be a bit confused. my advice to you, play a little hard ball. this will make him only want to open up more, and come out with how he really feels. just proceed with your life, be yourself, pay no attention to his little," im confused crap". this will make him want you more. yup guys are wierd.maybe hes scared a bit or itimidated by u???? since hes not a virgin and you are, i would def play hard to get. guys love this

Well what was the story ?? Thats obviously affected him somehow??

lol maby the story you told him upset him or he just got fed up with you.

maybe he is afraid to tell you that he loves you so that he wouldn't lose you

meet him and ask him what holds you to have a relationship or what are you to him

i wish i helped=)

umm ...hes not worth it.