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BOY PROBLEMS BIG TIME!!?

okay so there is this guy, and we've been hanging out all summer, like at least 2 times a week, and we would kiss and stuff, and now he is in one of my classes at school, and doesn't come and talk to me, and is also in my lunch, and doesn't even look at me... during passing period we both go the same way, and I was like "hey! thanks for saying hi" and he was like "HI:)" and I'm like "too late!" But we talk all night, every night, and asked me to Homecoming, and also to a college football game 4 hours away, which is in 4 months. So what the heck is going on, and why won't he even look at me in the halls, or in class, and why do I have to make the first move?!?!?! I don't know what we are, he isn't the type to be friends with benefits, but we've never talked about "us", and ughhh... he made my first day of school CRAP!! So would you assume that we are bf/gf? And what can I say to him, or do to make him at least talk to me...

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  • 1 decade ago
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    That guy sounds kinda messed up... he seems like he cares about you when he's with you just alone but when he's around all of his friends he's a totally different person. Just tell him what makes you mad, and express your feelings. See if he actually cares about you. Good Luck!

  • 1 decade ago

    Hahaha... typical ... This guy of yours is doing the same thing i do.....

    He is checking you out with his buddies and all the other folks, so that is it okay to come out with you in OPEN. That is are you GOOD ENOUGH, so that when everyone know he wont be embarressed...

    ... He is most probably going off for another relationship with any other girl..

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    just talk to him and ask him the questions u hav about u guys...and then if he doesnt talk to u at skewl then be confident of urself and go talk to him first but if ur to nervous then just start talking to some of his friends he hangs out with for he wont seem so insecure

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    hmmm... its a bit strange to be honest

    I think u guys are bf/gf but if u want to know for sure I would just ask him.

    But he cud be a bit shy around people and that mite be why he has been ignoring u at school

    plz help with mine

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You could tell him how you feel. Ask him why he is acting this way tonight when you are talking. Unless he is really shy i dont know why he would be acting this way.

  • 1 decade ago

    classic case of embarrassed to be seen with you.

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