guys how can i get his attention again ?

Let me say first that i'm not necessarily right, but i am trying my best (and i am a guy). :D

I think he obviously wants sex, especially if he's resorting to saying your "boring" etc. Don't let him bully you into having sex if you're not ready, which sounds like what he's trying to do.

Talking about sex is perfectly fine: my ex and i talked about it all the time, but we never had sex, however we're both virgins.

If you really like him that much, then whatever, but it sounds like he's kind of an ***. Of course make up your own mind cause obviously, i have no idea what he's like.

(No offense), but it sounds like you're overly worried with what you present yourself as. Just be yourself really. If you worry then that will reflect onto your relationship.

One last thought: The two most important (physical) attractions is a woman's cleavage and rear (G version).

Good Luck,

Hi!

Why are you even considering being with this guy??

You are NOT boring! And as for being a virgin - well, stay that way until you meet a guy who is worth losing your virginity to. This guy is not.

And no. Don't talk about sex, talk about what you both want to talk about - not what you think he wants to talk about. If you can't talk about or have anything in common but sex there is no relationship here, friend or otherwise.

He sounds like he is not that in to you, liked the idea you are a virgin and perhaps take that from you and run??... leave it! He is not worth it, YOU are worth a lot more!

Sounds harsh, but hope others will agree.

good luck!

It sounds like you're asking if you should put out for him. And I think you already know the answer to that--but it's not exactly what you want to hear right now. You want him, that's evident. But you also want his respect. First calling you "cute" then putting you down for your sense of morality or lack of readiness is clearly an act of manipulation and total disrespect.

I personally don't think you're "boring", it sounds to like you have a strong sense of character--it's just that right now you might be having a crisis of conscience. Having sex with him would probably change things, until he gets bored with that, too. Having sex with him would probably also change you. When you come to grips with what a jerk he is, you'll probably have nothing but anger for him and yourself. Remember, you can't un-ring a bell.

Here's another thing to hold on to: people who hop in the sack to get people's affection will probably lose it in a hurry. And the people who feel like they are *truly* boring sometimes have sex with people because they feel they have nothing else to offer.

My two cents: hold on tightly to your self-respect & hold out for the guy who respects you back. It might take a while, but when it does, you'll be ready to climb him like a tree!

if you like the guy get his attention away from sex its best for basing a relationship on. Don't tell him to stop talking about sex but dont bring it up. it makes you look like you aren't talking about something you dont know and make you seem some what intrested in it (even if you aren't)

Your're better off being a innocent boring virgin then a dirty slut.

dude if he's seriously ganna be like that then whatever, screw him. he probably only wants you for sex then. but no matter what, just like be yourself. if you feel uncomforatble or don't know what to say about sex, just don't. if he gets mad for it or doesn't like it, then i can tell you right now he's not the best guy to like.

DONT CHANGE FOR A GUY WHO JUST WANTS YOU FOR SEX!!! He'll leave you in a mess after he gets what he wants. don't change for that!

act like your to good for him and don't need him walk right by him and don't say nothing he will come around and start to chase you.

that guy isn't worth it...he's trying to get you to have sex with him

well first of all take off that hilarious hat