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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 1 decade ago

Hwo can I turn over a new leaf this school year??? 10 POINTS!! Please Read!!?

Last school year, I was nice to everyone, even UGLY UNPOPULAR guys. The ugly guys would ask me out and I would ACCEPT SOCIAL SUCICIDE because I wanted to be a good person and overlook physical appearance. You would think these guys would be on their hands and knees to have a girl like me even LOOK at them. But no. None of them appreciated me. I gave my relationships everyhing. I did all I could for the guy, but it seemed like it was all unrequited. My whole sophomore year I was the nicest girl ever. People always told me how nice and friendly I was with such a good personality but no guy apprecaited me. And I was still nice!!!!

But over the summer I started to take a look at myself. I'm very intelligent. I'm in the national honor society, make all A's and B's and am even taking calsses at the local community college. I'm like the best looknig girl ever. At malls, I get hit on all the time. i've got so much gonig for me. I'm almost illegible to get my license and I'm working on gettign a job.

So I've decided, I'm gonig to turn over a new leaf this year. Other girls have decent boyfriends that appreciate them. So why can't I?? How hard is it?? I'ver decided to not gicve ugly guys the time of day this year. What can I do to show the school that I'm no more Ms.Nice Girl and I'm through with unrequited love??

Thanks!

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    >"I'm like the best looknig girl ever. At malls, I get hit on all the time. i've got so much gonig for me. I'm almost illegible to get my license and I'm working on gettign a job."

    Good for you! I'll bet in another country you'd be worth at least 3 camels!

    >"Other girls have decent boyfriends that appreciate them. "

    Ya, I know, everybody, except for you has a perfect life!

    So here's the reality, you sound mature for your age! The teenage boys around your age have a lot of growing up to do! They are not capable of a relationship. They don't even know what that means! They're only wired for one thing. They think falling in love is getting layed! It's nothing personal! For example, here's their concept of a "nice girl" - a semi-anatomically correct "blow up doll" that can repeat nasty phrases, and is "easy"!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I don't mean to offend you or anything, just a suggestion but if your that much of a cocky b!t*h in real life (but maybe it's just how the question is worded. Maybe you ARE nice in person, but i don't know yooh, im just going by what the question says.) then i can kinda see why no guy really appreciates you. I mean really? "Ugly unpopular guys", "Accept social suicide" and "You would think these guys would be on their hands and knees to have a girl like me even LOOK at them" It;s not like it's their fault they aren't as 'Good looking' as you think you are, or are, i don't know you. And really i don't think you were doing those 'Ugly unpopular' guys such a favor by turning around and calling them ugly and unpopular (And just b/c they don't have the same friends as you doesn't make them 'unpopular') and saying that by going out with them you commited social suicide.

    Just remember, one of those 'ugly' guys could be quite hot in a few years, or really rich, and then I bet you would regret calling them ugly.

    So read your question to yourself, and have an open mind, and see what you can do to change yourself and actually be 'Ms.NiceGirl' this year, and maybe a guy will come along that will love and appriciate you, just don't talk about him like you just talked about those 'ugly unpopular guys'. I don't think he would appriecate that.

    And like i've already said, i don't mean to offend, and if i did then sorry.=)

  • ?
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    Well when your a girl, the worst thing you can be is sexual or not sexual enough. Either your a prude who won't put out and then people target you claiming your really a dude or that your secretly the biggest whore in the school. Or you sleep with one guy, and he tells. It's good for him and people will congratulate him. But the girl, is s ult and now has rumors about stds pregnancy/abortion. Or a snapchat photo between the girl and her crush, gets screenshot and gets passed around the school.

  • Boo
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Just remember that ugly guy might someday be the owner of a business at which you may want to work , Or even be the person who will decide if you get a loan at the bank or credit union .

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