Why do others Judge me? And A few more Questions too!?

It is the reality of school. It sucks I know I have been there done that. I used always get picked on for being different and for being a quite kid. I am now 25 and I have learned to accept myself and still keep in contact with a few of my high school friends that actually treated me right. Since I have gotten older I have found people that accept me for who I am. I just be myself and if people like then that is great but I am not going to change just fit in the with "in crowd".

Kids are very very extremely cruel (I know). They just want to show off and feel superior by bringing YOU down. I suggest you don't let them (don't go taking a gun to school though). I'm just saying say something really mean to them and then ignore them - as if you feel you're way better than to deal with their stuff. Ignore them the majority of time and when they get really loud and noticeable just look at them and roll your eyes and continue to listen to the teacher. Always talk around to the people that are nice and friendly and answer questions in class so they don't think you're scared of them. If you were my kid I would have already been at that school and talked to the teacher AND their parents! I can't stand bullies!

Be you and don't ever change. It's all useless. The bullies mostly always end up in bad situations once they're older.

I completely agree with everything that the first poster said. Kids can be really cruel. Going to HS or Junior High, which I'm assuming is your age range, can be very difficult. I know it's so hard, but you really have to try to not let it get to you. Kids that make from others are just looking for a reaction. They want to see you get upset. If you show it doesn't get to you, then eventually they should let up. I think you need to join some kind of group/activity that really interests you. It will help you to make friends with people who you have things in common with.

Are you in high school?

Well, teenagers tend to be jerks and often judge others just to make themselves feel good and superior. Ignore them! Their either haters or stupid. Freckles are cuute! :D sorry, umm well if your not handsome then change your appearance. Fix your hair, new clothes, work out and stuff. Just relax, high school if filled with hypocrisy and stupidity and most of all immaturity. Good luck. Hope I helped. :)

School sucks hon... it really does... My best advice is try to find people who are like you and make friends with them. My few friends are what got me through those years. Try to ignore the idiots. I know it's hard but try to act like you don't care what they say. The less reaction you give them hopefully the less they will taunt you.

Just curious exactly how old are you and what grade are you in?

judging is a normal human thingy. some do it just for the laugh and talk. they get there rocks off at making you feel bad. most do it just because cutting you down,makes them look better. what i did to people that judged me i chewed em out in spanish. and most people didn't judge me long. because one guy did in 10th grade and i broke his nose. hope this helps.