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How to get away from shyness?

Hi, Ladys and Guys. I am wondering if you could help me get out of my nervousness and shyness? I am meeting up with my boyfriend for the first time next week on my 23rd birthday and I don't want him to be like "Your not my type"..etc because of my shyness. how can I get out of it? plus I want to try and kiss him even though its my first time ever kissing a guy. do you have any pointers or tips?

Thanks

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Well you must have told him you are shy at some point, which should help. In fact, if you are too successful at hiding your shyness, he might think you were lying to him about being shy, and that would not be good. So just be your self, shy or not. Shyness goes away quick after you've done some hugging and giggling and biting. :)

  • ?
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    If you are meeting him for the first time, he's hardly a boyfriend. You can use that term after you've had sex, not before. Just be yourself. At 23 you are who you are.

    When you extend your hand to shake his, put your free hand on his shoulder and pull him into a quick hug. Smile and make eye contact.

    Shy people are just impossible! Adorable, but impossible!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    do you know if he is shy to. me and my friend i met online are planning on meeting. yes im nervous about it because im extremely shy, but he said he is shy as well so that may work out good. i dont really have a sugestion bout you wanting to kiss your for now eboyfriend because its like with me and my friend he wants to be friends for now till we meet and if God wants us to be together then hes fine with it, so i would be so embarrased if i leaned in to kiss him and he leans back like WTF! so what i guess im saying is let him decide if he wants to kiss you give him signs your open to it look into his eyes maybe touch his hand or shoulder you never know he maybe as shy as you are let him know that your shy. sounds bad but it lets him no that your not stuck up or not intersted in him but that you just have trouble getting started.and finally if there is no kiss by the end of your date but you feel there is a connection tell him you enjoyed the date and tell him how you feel about him and if you really want the kiss just say i would like to kiss you or say can i kiss you if hes shy and holding back to it maybe the only chance. good luck and if you want to chat feel free to email me or send me an instant message on yahoo at bluemew88888 i hope it works out for you and i hope you have a special and happy birthday

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    meeting your b/f for the first time?? did you meet him online? i wouldn't recommend it.

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