Why Do People Tell Me To Forget Him?

You'll never forget it; no matter how hard you try, or how much people tell you too.

You shouldn't forget him; he deserves to be remembered, but try not to let it get you down; when you think about him think about the good times, really good things that have happened to you because of him, and good stuff that's happened to him cos of you. Think of all the funny things that happened while he was still alive.

Picture him laughing, and always keep that in your mind; whenever you think of him, see that image, see your friend when he was happy. That's what he's like now; happy, and the only thing that would upset him is seeing the people he left behind being miserable.

He knows you loved him, and still love him, and he loves you too.

Keep yourself busy; that way you won't have much time to get too emotional when thinking about him.

Remember that crying over those who have died is selfish; they're happy in heaven and you're only upset cos they ain't here with you anymore.

I am so sorry for your loss. I really hope I helped.

- Becky xo

You won't ever forget him. But i think wat they want you to do is just kinda move on. That's really hard to do and people mourn in different ways but there's no use in dwelling on him 24/7 to the point where thats all you are focused on. You won't forget him but you have to move on and that may take time. I'm sorry about your loss.

You will always have YOUR Memories, and won't ever completely forget;

Move on in memory of your friend....!!

becuase if u keep thinking about hi, you will just be depressed. move on.. its the best way