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How would you react/feel if your spouse propositioned another person for sex but didn't go through with it?

Would you be okay with it? What would you do?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    I would question why he needed to proposition someone for sex in the first place. The fact that he didn't go through with it would take second seat to why he did it in the first place.

    You need to talk, and if his answers are not too your liking, then maybe counseling would be in order.

    I would feel betrayed, and in that betrayal, I would be less inclined to place my trust in him.

  • 1 decade ago

    I would say something is going on with your spouse that he/she is not happy with and it most likely is about you. If he/she is propositioning somebody for sex and then does not go through with it maybe you should step back and take a look at what may be going on. Get with your spouse and or marriage counseling and get to the core of the problem before it is way too late.

  • 1 decade ago

    No I wouldn't be OK with that at all. It would only be a matter of time before he propositioned someone again and did go through with it. There is something wrong if he feels the desire to go outside the marriage for sex.

  • 1 decade ago

    Well that would make it obvious the relationship has broken down completely.

    If he is ready to be intimate with someone else then he has decided he is done with me. I wouldn't tolerate it.

    I would be very hurt and I would want to know why he didn't at least try to make things work for us first?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I'd feel seriously hacked and desperate to get the wayward spouse into marriage counseling asap.

  • 1 decade ago

    If you proposition someone for sex and don't go through with it, that makes you a quitter.

  • 1 decade ago

    I would demand counseling and possibly consider divorce. There are serious problems on his end or both ends if this has happened.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I would be pissed the f**k off. You don't do no s**t like that. That lets me know that you would cheat if given the opportunity.

  • ?
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    On what planet would ANYONE be okay with this? So he/she didn't cheat this time...they might the next time, or the next time, or the next time.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    I would feel betrayed. And I would be scared it might happen again. I would insist he/she get some counseling.

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